Shy guy

  • Samantha
    17 years ago

    Ok so here\'s the thing
    I like this guy alot and I mean alot
    He\'s sweet, funny, cute, (read in my poems) and a major nerd but I love it
    He\'s definatly not the type I usually go for but then again whose to say what a "type" is anyway
    The problem is hes a shy guy and even if he wanted to I dont think he could ask me out....
    so what am i supposed to do?
    I know I could ask him out but thats just not an option right now...... so if anyone could find a way around that I would love that
    ~thanks guys

  • Molly
    17 years ago

    Just one question.....why isn't asking him an option?
    Anyway.......I no i may be young but really ur talkin to a lot of experience lol not that kind but w/e...u just have to have one of ur friends talk to him say yea i think u should date Samantha or figure out if he even likes u! (which i'm sure he does) but that's how it happened to me i liked a guy...and um, yea he didn't like me that way i liked him...and yea were better friends, i suppose but time comes, anyway if that doesn't work than idk wat u could do! Idk if that helps but i try!!!

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Tell him you like him. That way he won't be terrified of rejection if he decides to ask you out.

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    I half agree with the first suggestion get a friend to find out if he likes you that might give him the push to maybe ask you out, but i got a friend to do it even though i didnt agree with it at the time and it turned out bad for me so im not totally withthat idewa because its not nice to get bad news.

    im a traditional type, the boy asks the girls so i can kind of see the pickle your in.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Just flirt with him a lot, maybe he'll build up confidence. And the whole "get a friend to say something" that's so middle school. Just be yourself around him, and things will work out.