(((Relationship without a title)))

Alright so four days before me and my ________...ex boyfriends...4 months him and i had a long conversation and i leanrned that he was having thoughts about going on a break from me for a while because he was really busy with all the stuff he had going on with school and wrestling and his job and he just didnt feel like he do all of that to his best ability and then be a good man to me too but he said that he does care about me a lot and that he wants to be with me but what he wants and what he needs is two different things because he needs to get a 3.0 and he needs to keep his promotion at work and he NEEDS to stay the wrestling champ at his school! So i said ok because i love him soo much and i told him that i would wait for him because he told me that it would only be a break for a few months and now it has been a month! But he and i still act like we go out and on our supposed to be 5 months we still celebrated it and he said that if we started going out again he would consider us together for 5 months still because we do EVERYTHIHNG that we used to do and i can really tell that he is falling for me just by some of the things he says and does and he made me feel really bad one day though because he told me that he is scared to fall for me because when i leave for the navy i am going to be gone for 8 weeks and then 7 weeks and then 4 years and he said that he cant be away from the women he loves and especially the first women he ever loved! and that made me really want to cry and then the other night we were talkin and i told him that i couldnt wait forever and he was quiet and i asked him wat he was thinkin and he said that he was thinkin that putting a title back on it wouldnt be such a bad idea but then he said he just needed a lil more time...so i was like ok! So then he took me to my homecoming and we had soo much fun and we were supposed to spend the night by my best friend ashleys house but there were soo many people just passed out everywhere and he didnt want me sleeping on the phone so we went to a hotel just the two of us so i dont have to get into details as of what happened but it did and now we are worried that i may be pregnant but neither one of us are ready for a child right now especially me because i am leaving for navy boot camp on june 30th! Im soo sorry that this is soo long but i havent been on here in awhile and so i couldnt keep you posted there are more details i will be back later

So he wants to sleep with you, but not call you his girlfriend. Open your eyes! You're being used.

Stop sleeping with him, seriously. You're wasting your time with him; every time you ask for advice on this site people tell you that you should stop messing around with him.

I doubt that advice is going to change. If you're going to continue to screw up your life, then go ahead. But be safe- don't make a child pay for your mistakes.

Britt's response made me bust out laughing moronically in class, and then I had to explain to the teacher what I was laughing at.

OSS, anyone? Lmfao.

Thank you for that Britt. The laugh, I mean.
And you're right.. Again.

I didn't really find her advice that funny. Britt you should be nice about these things when people ask for advice.

I think that you should break away from this guy. If he wanted to be with you, and he loved you, nothing else would be more important. He's choosing everything and everyone else in his life over you. Can you see that? Don't wait any longer, and don't give yourself to him again. Go to the doctor and see if you are pregnant, and WHY didn't you use a condom???!!! That's something I just really don't get. Break away from him...

And by the way, you won't want anything to do with him once you're in the military. All those hott guys walkin round! :] good luck.

^ or at least use protection?????
at least use a ziplock bag or SOMETHING XD lol.. actualy ive heard of people using those... dont know how it turned out but i dont recommend it..

..if you do everything you used to as a couple, why the hell does he need more time?
or, time at all? since you say nothing has really changed..
sounds to me like he doesnt want to be
a t t a c h e d.
as everyone else has been saying too =-p
get rid of this scum and find yourself a gentleman.

Well, if you're pregnant, you're pregnant. If you're not ready to have a baby, you shouldn't be having sex.

I also think you and your boyfriend have problems. You're on a break, but still acting like you're together? Sounds to me like an excuse to sleep around or search for another partner.