Should I tell him?

  • DeathsRose
    17 years ago

    My friend's b/f is in jail and my friend is a mess. She keeps telling me how much she misses him and how lonely she is. Recently she has been sleping around with a few other guys because she said she is lonely and has lost all respect for herself. I told her to stop because her b/f has always been faithful to her and he doesn't deserve this. She was 100% faithful while they were dating before he went to jail, but now that he's ben in jail for 2 or 3 months she has stopped beig faithful. I told her that I wouldn't tell her b/f (I write to him as a friend but her family won't let her because they do not like him). Another one of her and my friends (my ex actually) found out what she was doing and told her he was going to tell. I told him not to and so did she. She said she'd stop because she felt guilty what she was doing and she truely did love her b/f. I don't know if it was the right thing I did or if I should still tell.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    ^^ I agree. Stay out of it. You never wanna get caught in the middle of drama, you fight and lose friends that way.

    And I agree that your friend really doesn't love her boyfriend.

  • Broken Hearted Immortal
    17 years ago

    I would tell him because if a girl has lost all respect for herself to go around sleeping with other guyz while he is in jail then there is something wrong. cant she go see him? i mean it doesnt matter if he is in jail if she loves him then she can wait. good things are always worth waiting for and she needs to figure out what the hell she is going to do because no girl should lose respect for herself and sleep around with guys with her bf is in jail. you should tell her that either she tells him or you will do it for her.

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    Hey

    If i were you id tell no one for your friends sake just get on with life n forget it happened.