OMG I NEED HELP!!!!!

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    So i have this friend...now, me and her aren't CLOSE friends...we talk every now and then...we're not enemies, we just don't talk often. but today, she told me a REALLY big secret............
    so we have this teacher at my school...she and him are having a RELATIONSHIP.
    now, she SAYS they aren't being sexual, because she's not 18...but AYE!!! HE is married with kids, SHE has a boyfriend...IT IS AGAINST THE LAW...isn't it??
    what do i do??? i feel like i'm a part of the problem because i'm letting it continue.
    and....UGG!!!! i'm SOO confused. i don't know what to do. help please!!

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    I did...she won't listen to me...
    i tell her it is SOO wrong, and that they could get in ALOT of trouble, and he could lose his job, or worse...yea! Go to jail!!
    but she just says that its SOO good, she can't stop, and they are so secretive, it doesn't matter....nobody will find out.

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    Lol, skydiving? yea right! i'm so scared of heights!! but...her and i aren't real close...she's just like, one of those people that are in your class, but you sit on opposite ends, so you never really interact...so its WEIRD that she told me!!! and so consequently, i don't know what she likes...OBVIOUSLY old disgusting married men...so i wouldn't be able to give her a distraction.

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    Well...should i not say anything?
    i don't want to, because i just feel like a tattle-tale...lol, is there another word for that? but i do want to say something...because what if this happens with other girls? and what if the girl doesn't comply?? AYE...but yea...i'll probably just leave her alone...

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    Ok...thanks so much....i was so...discombobulated...and you calmed me down :]
    and yea...my problems are numerous...
    so thanks, i appreciate it

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    How old is this girl? And the guy?
    I mean is this a high school setting or college?
    In either case, it is wrong. I'd just like to know a little more to be able to grasp the whole concept.

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    'Friends' are supposed to listen to what 'friends' have to say. If she is that ignorant as to ignore you telling her to stop, then dump her and watch her fall.
    If you're too soft for something like that, and for some reason you still care about her, even though she's indirectly telling you to butt out of her life right now; then tell your Head teacher or Principle, whatever. Get it sorted, and have her learn the hard way in sheer embarrassment and shame for her actions.

    End of.

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    Well, the girl is a senior in high school, not yet 18...she'll be 18 in a month or two...and the teacher is 55. which i think is SICK...but they are excited for her to turn 18 so it won't be illegal...
    ugh....

    how do i just "dump" her? i mean...i could leave the situation alone...but that won't do anything...they'll just keep going on with this whole thing...

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    Thats true...but serves him right...thinking its ok to get involved with a student.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Just stay out of it. Don't tell anyone, don't be the cause for word to get out. She'll eventually tell someone else, or someone will just pick up on it. Word will get out eventually. You never really wanna be the cause for an explosion.

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    I think it will still be illegal when she's 18, as long as she's in that school. I believe there are certain extra constrictions that would be placed on the relationship, because he is an authority figure - could be using his power over her, etc.

    Could you possibly confront the teacher? I'm sure he'd feel differently about the "relationship" if he knew that word was out. His job, family, and life in general are at stake.

  • JanaeNae
    17 years ago

    I thought about that too, but i would think he would just deny it...

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    He might deny it to you, but he coudn't deny it to himself, if it's true. And it might give him the impetus to get ahold of himself and wake up. Bleghhh