Desperate Friend

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    I usually don`t ask for advice and just go on my gut instinct, but I really don`t know what to do. One of my best guy friends has just told me he`s going to ask out my best friend..I`m happy for her, but at the same time worried. Since she started liking him and he admitted he liked her, she`s been acting really desperate and needy around him...to the point where it gets annoying. I told her to tone it down, but she hasn`t.

    Now, another one of my really good guy friends told me he liked her the other day as well. I swore I wouldn`t say anything about it, but he always sees them together and she`s always all over the other one and it kills him seeing it.

    The first guy has been known for heartbreak, it`s basically his name. But, she really likes him and there`s no stopping that. I don`t know what to do. I advised him not to ask her, pointed out that they`d be in the same school which leads to disaster with how small of a town we have and how fast news travles..and that they don`t know each other well and he also likes a few more of my friends. I should just butt out, but I can`t. What would you do?

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Honestly, I'd leave it alone. Theres no reason you can't just butt out. Staying out of drama is the best thing that you can do. Staying out of this would show your maturity, getting involved in drama that's not yours shows an immature person.

    And there is nothing that you can do to change any of their minds. This will unfold and what is meant to be will happen. There's nothing you can do, just be there for your friends when they get hurt.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    God...
    im so glad to be away from that kind of dating...
    oy..
    oh, it makes me anxious just thinking about it.
    horrah for monogamy.