Stay silent or speak up?

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    Well the name of this says it all, there are two guys i like very much, now im not normally for internet relationships, but theres one guy who i met on the internet just over 4 years back now who iv liked for a couple of years now, and although his 19 i still cant help but have feeling for him.
    and on the other had theres a guy in my year who i notised because he was different from the rest but im just to shy to talk to him properly, and i dont have much corage in speaking up out of the croud who laughed at me when they found out i liked him.... which kind of didnt help.....

    well now im in a pickle i really like bother, one i might not ever see unless im actually in a relationship with him, and a guy who i will risk imbarasment and probly rejection. But the reall thing i want to know should i tell them how i feel?? :S

  • limp
    17 years ago

    Them? no, it's not a choice of if you're rejected by one you still get to go and see if you're rejected by the other. If you want to tell them, tell ONE of them, and if I were you, I wouldn't listen to everyone else and I'd tell the person I had a chance with. not an e-nearly 20 year old. but don't ask them both, because that's effectively like two-timing. "Oh, you were my second choice, by the way. but thanks for dating me."

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    I can see what you mean....

    but either way i cant really go up to either one and go hey yeh i like you alot. and basicly make a odd convo.