Something is happening...help

  • melissa nordmeyer
    17 years ago

    Heres the thing.

    lately my best friend has only wanted to hang out with me when hes bored and has nothing else to do. He has been making a load of new friends, and since then has blown me off. He once told me that he would NEVER ditch a friend. Well he has. Anyways this guy is supposed to care about me. Lately though he seems to care about everyone BUT me. any idea what could b going on???

  • Milton
    17 years ago

    That's what happens with friends during this age. most of them meet new people and things change between you two.

    but if you really want to know what he's been up to, just ask what he's been up to.

  • melissa nordmeyer
    17 years ago

    That would b great except i do and then it turns into a drama and its always my fault...and it always happens when he makes new friends. He forgets about me and my feelings. Until he realises he misses me it's almost like I don't matter. Even though I know he does care, he just doesn't know how it feels to b forgotten

  • Milton
    17 years ago

    What do you mean it turns into drama? just ask him how he's doing, and if anything interesting is happening. I don't see how asking someone what have they been up to leads to him getting mad at you. that's just basic conversation >_>

    but to me, he just seems like an attention whore. when he can't hang out with all of those other people he just talks to you and then forgets you and then he does it all over again.

    but just talk to him like normal. be nice and just talk. it'll make things better.

  • melissa nordmeyer
    17 years ago

    Ooo and see i thought u meant to talk to him about it. lol. well yea normal convo would work possibly.. and he really does love attention. u got that right lol.

  • Milton
    17 years ago

    Heh yea. don't worry about how things are with you two. when you talk to him just be nice. it'll be easier.