What should I do when?

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    My bestfriend falls pregnant and is wanting to keep the baby even thought she hasnt got a house over her head and she is on drugs and doesnt really have any money or anything she thinks her life is worthless and wants to kill herself but the thing here is she asked me to be the babys god mother I dont wanna say no because im all shes got, but then again im only 15 and according to me im to young to raise my own child let alone help raise someone elses.. I feel like she is dumping all her problems on me to escape the fault of what shes doing to herself

    what should I do?

  • Elizabeth
    17 years ago

    Report her. Simply. Call Child Services, or someone like the police who can call Child Services. This is not about your friend, not anymore, it's about that baby. That baby doesn't need someone like that and doesn't need that life.

  • TrueLover
    17 years ago

    I agree ^. If your friend is going to be so stupid as to put a child through the hell she's gotten herself into, than you need to stop worrying about sparing her and worry about getting that baby help, before it's born and in trouble.

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    Im not saying that I agree with what she is doing I disagree with it 100% what I dont know is how Im supposed to tell her that I disagree without making her feel worse then she does

    the main thing is im not really cared about the baby, im more concerned for myself I know that sounds selfish but I was an abused child and all and she makes it sound like shes the only one, I just want her out of my life without making it look like im the bad person is that possible?

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    So... you don't want to LOOK like a bad person, or you don't want to BE a bad person?

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    Call children services! Or, talk to her about giving up the baby until she can get on her feet.

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    Well my friend does things and blames other people for the way she acts,
    so if I was to say no I cant do this she will call my other friend and say if it wasnt for blah blah blah I woulnt be here, just like she says if it wasnt for robbie she wouldnt be pregnant but it takes two to tango and she jumped into bed with him willingly or like she says if it wasnt for her foster mum the department of child services wouldnt have cancelled all her placements and dropped her from there file... its her fault for always running away and doing things she shouldnt be, im not trying to be selfish but im sick of other being blamed for her mistakes.... next thing you know this baby could be the blame for her not having money or being the reason she has to smoke a little pot "cuz she is oh so stressed" do u get what I mean I dont want to get involved so how do I tell her I dont care when I do I just cant handle her crap