Advice needed for my sanity

  • Allison
    17 years ago

    Ok....a friend of mine is dating this guy and shes basically in love with him, however, she doesn't see what a filthy pig he can really be. We were at homecoming this weekend and he got the guts to flirt with me and make really bold sexual advancements (touching my breasts *hit him for it* and sliding his hand up my leg *basically under my dress*) She didn't see any of this though, and they are both friends of mine. However strong my friendship with him is, I want to tell my friend what happened, but I don't know how. Anyone have any ideas that could help me?

  • skynerraw
    17 years ago

    Ok, pretty much this exact same thing happened to me, but I wasn't the girl he did it to, you really need to tell her, if you're her friend, then she deserves to know, and then she can diside what to do, or maybe tell the guys he needs to stop, or you'll tell her :/ hope this helped..

  • Beautiful Chaos
    17 years ago

    There really is no sugar coating it, just come out and tell her, you're not telling her to hurt her, you're telling her because you care about her, she deserves toknow and she can do way better. If he was your friend in anyway he would have never put you in this position.

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    Tell her, dont leave her left in his lies and you are her friend and freinds should be loyal to each other and tell her the truth no matter how much it hurts atleast you are doing the right thing.

  • Allison
    17 years ago

    Yes, I plan to tell her everything....I just wish that there was an easier way to do it. Part of me was actually hopeing that someone could tell me how to do it, even though that was completely silly of me. I don't like being put in these kinds of situtations, no one does, and I hate him so much for doing this to me. *takes a deep breath*

    He had the guts to talk to me and hug me today, and it took every moral I've ever had not to kill him on the spot. Hes reveling in my discomfort...and I hate him so much for it.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    17 years ago

    You allow him to make you uncomfortable, the longer you delay, the more suspicious you make yourself look, even if you are guilty of nothing, just come out and tell her, you should have as soon as it happened.

  • JayJ
    17 years ago

    Let him know that you are going to tell her what he did to you...and that it's his fault, he shouldn't have done that. Tell her...and then get the three of you together and talk about this in a civil manner and be sure to let your guy friend know what he did was very wrong and it shouldn't happen again.

    *that was kinda confusing but I hope it helped you*

    JayJ

  • Jamie Lorraine
    17 years ago

    He might try the same thing to her. think about it shug