Im falling apart.

I just dont know what to do anymore. he didn't wanna be with me. and i have tried to respect that. but it's really hard. everything reminds me of him. and all of our memories together. i dont know what to do. my hearts says to wait as long as it takes. but my head is telling me that i have to move on with my own life. and im not sure that i can. i loved him. and i know i always will. and im living without him. but everyday. its like this huge piece of me is missing. if any of u guys can help me out please let me know.
thanks
ambir

Hey.. i know what you're going through, and its tough...but if he doesn't love you.. move on. Its to hard to love and hang on to something that isn't there. Maybe if its ment to be, he'll understand his feelings for you later on and you two can get back together. I'm sure there's one guy out there who's 100x better and can love you 100x more!! you just gotta find him...i hope i was of help... and i wish you all the luck in th world

Suck it up.

I don't intend to be harsh or anything, but that's the only way to get over it. Pick yourself up off the floor, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and go get over him. It won't be easy, and it might take a lot of time, but you have to do it and you have to want to do it.

Concentrate on other parts of your life- you don't need a boy to make you happy.

I completly understand what you mean. I am sorta kinda going through that right now. You can always remember the good times and the way he made you feel. You can learn so much from everything you guys were together. I know that I will never forget my ex. I know how it feels to think that there will be no one else, that he is the only great guy out there, that the empty space inside you can't be filled by anyone else, but it can. There will be other guys that may even be better for you then he was. It may be hard to understand now, but it's true. You don't have to make yourself get over him. Just move on and always keep the memories and a little love for him in your heart. That probably all sounds cheesy, but it helped me. :) You also have to give it time, a month ago I wouldn't have been able to type any of this without crying my eyes out, but here I am today, typing this. And that much stronger than I was before.

Use that expierence to grow. :)

~Kat~