HELP ME IM HURTING ON THE INSDIE OUT!!! YOU WONT BELIEVE THIS!!!

My boyfriend just broke with me last night and I dnt knw why everything was going good and great and all the sudden he started acting weird I knw I should of saw it coming but I guess people are right love does blind you. It all started yesterday when all these girls started flirting with him and he seems like he expected me to take it but I cldnt I told him I tursted him and everything. But after school he told me tht he loved me and tht everything will be ok and tht wants to be with me and not them. 3 hours later I get a call from him on my cell and he said he wants to break up.And I still dnt knw why he did it I've heard 4 or maybe 5 reasons.

1.) He dosent want to be a pecker and because of those girls flirting with him yesterday
2.) He was cheating on me with this chick from his old skool(Del)
3.) He dosent care about me enough to be with me he wanted to do it sooner but didnt have the heart to
4.) He dosent want to be in a dramatic relationship because of the way I was acting towards those girls flirting with him.

He wont tell me I heard all those reasons from 4 different people and he wont tell me. I loved him so much I wld of dont anything for him and yet he walkes all over me. He seems like relationships are perfect or are suppose to be and when time gets tough he just gives up relationships have their ups and thier downs but tht dosent mean you have to give up now does it? I've been so upset I've thrown up at leat 10x since he called me and siad it was over. I sat in my 1st hour today crying and sat there and watched me (because he is my first hour). And today at lunch he was walking with this other girl and it tore me apart. I dont know how much more I can take. I just wanna die. I want him back and I miss him so much!! Please leave me a message with some adive Please Im begging you because at this point the only thing I can think about is dying.

WOAH!!! hold up girl!! your being way to hard on yourself! How long have you guys been going out? Then maybe I can help you out. Ermm...you gotta stop this trowing up thing and crying first off, so calm down and relax...people are here for you on P&Q's (TaDAA!! here I am to your rescue!!) PM me okay!! i'm kinda worried about you...I don't want you to go kill yourself over some boy now! NOTHING IS WORTH KILLING YOURSELF OVER!!! but hey I went threw this kinda issue not to long ago, but i saved my relationship maybe I can help you!? If he wants sex and your not giving it to him...dont waste your time on him!! but plz. PM me!

JayJ *hugs* Be strong!

JayJ is right no guy is worth killing yourself over and the one that is will never make you want to. You and this guy seem to be pretty happy together and you never know maybe hes just aconfuzzed and hell comeback in a few days after he realizes what he will be missing out on. Take a deep breatha nd realize that there are people who will listen if you need someone (like me) im a great listener and have a fair bit of experiendce with this kinda thing. P.S dont listen to the rumors about why he broke up with you it only makes it harder

Luv ya gurl, Carrie

Sounds like this is just another break up ordeal. Don't worry, you'll get over it in time. :)

I do believe this.
it happens to almost everyone, eventually.
he's a dick, a worthless dick. [is that word against the rules? if it is, i am sorry and ill edit it]

Is he isnt men enough to tell u the reason he dumped you himself then he isnt men enough to date in the first place it looks like he was only looking for an easier way out of a relationship.

and as to wanting to kill urself, u are now taking it to extremes. just get on with life its easier being single anyways yes the cuddles and I love yous is gr8 but if u have good mates they will do that for u anyway. it mite not be good thing but hunny life goes on if u kill urself ova this jerk then his winning isnt he?

JayJ is right. listen to the people on P&Q they are very wise.

Thanks broken angel!

***ARE YOU OKAY SARA? **** it would help if you replied to us....

JayJ

I have had this happen to me before. And to this day Im not sure the real reason. He told me a bunch of crap. But I dont know if I can believe him. No guy is worth killing yourself over. Dont worry about it, he is an A** and you deserve better. If you need anything PM me. Alright. Be strong and hold up. =]

*Aleesha*

It's ok girl!! if he didn't tell the other girls to stop flirting with him when you were around then he has no respect for you......you can do better than that!
**Best of luck**

Aww im so sorry to hear that i can feel your pain go n get drunk with your mates thats wat i did from my last ex

You're nearly 17. That's still young despite what you may think.

There three sides to a relationship. His opinion, her opinion and the truth.

In your opening statement you say everything was going so well but then you should have seen it coming. This is so true of many a youthful relationship. You want it to last you think it will but then comes the bigger better deal and before you know it the house of cards has fallen.

I've been there, Bob's been there and most everyone else on the planet your age and older has too, trust me.

This situation reminds me of that god awful song by Avril Lavinge. Hey hey you you I don't like your girlfriend.

So bad they made a song out of it.

Sit back, take a deep breath (or as many as you need) and let it go. He's not worth it and I would wager that no man is really going to be worth "it" for a few years to come.

Get out, do what you enjoy and live life while you have the energy to do it. College or a career is coming and new horizons are going to open up to you and I promise you this time next year you'll look back and wonder why you got so upset.

Or alternatively you can wind up doing what I did... sit in a one way marriage for seven years before you finally muster up the courage to up and get out.