Oh but I love him is nyone else gettting sick of hearing this?

Is everyone getting sick of people saying he hurt me but I love him and im gonna give him a second chance or asking for advice then disagreeing with what everyone says?

"like the other night my boyfriend dumped me and I dont no why I am so in love with him and want him to give me another chance I am so despressed I want to die"

when in all reality most of these girls and or guys were only dateing for two weeks and probly doesnt even know there other halfs as well as they think

what people need to realise is life goes on and if a guy hurts you once his more then likly gonna do it again its not fiction its reality

whats everyones else opinion on this subject?

I'm not like the girls you are describing, but you should just try to understand that at that point in their lives they truly are feeling that way. They just want someone to help them through. Even though we hear it all the time, there's no reason to put them down further. I think you should just let it go, because by making this post you're not going to get anywhere. People will still post these topics. Just let it go.

YES!

People think cause they've been in a 'relationship' for all of 2 weeks that they're in love and that crap. Plus, when they come on hear crying that their boyfriend broke up with them and they don't know know what to do!!! ITS SIMPLE!!! Just DEAL with it!

I Think that people ask or advice to prove something.
and if in their heads its not proving they shouldn't be with them, then they realize that they should.
Its all whats in our own head.
Like with me and my "jake" post, well I agree with everything everyone said, I just made the choice that came right to me. Its not my fault it wasn't what everyone wanted.
When we make the choice to give advice to someone asking for it, then we have to know that they may agree or disagree.. we aren't making them choose our side, we are supposed to be helping them make the choice that seems right to them.

Yes I agree that its annoying, but I think its important to put yourself in some of these girl's shoes. Although I don't think they should be coddled, I'm pretty sure everyone at some point from the age 13-17 at some point got their "heart broken" and when you're so young, you've experienced very little and it feels like the world's going to end. You, the poster, are obviously pretty intelligent and probably have experienced a bit more than them. Instead of condemning them, offer them your insight, so maybe they can start thinking the way you do.

Some things are pretty pointless, yes, like the thirteen year olds trying to choose between three different loves of their lives. But we still need to understand, or try to, like people would when you've got a problem. I am fortunate enough to have a wonderful relationship with the love of MY life, but other people are not. Some people really do rule their lives with love (*ahem* me) and when that love is lost...Well, what are they to do?

Yeah i agree that they might need to realize a few things, but the things they are feeling most of us have gone through before and we have realized that there is more to it, that there are going to be others. The best thing the rest of us can do it be nice and let them learn what we have already learned, instead of getting annoied by it.

~Kat~