Boys!

I really like this guy and he has told me that he likes me too. so one night we hung out and we ended up doing some things, and it was his first time doing them. but we hadnt talked in a long time. then we started talking again and he wanted to hang out, so we did and things happened again. i am fine with it, b/c i just want to be with him, talk to him, or just be around him. he told me that he loved me and he is the only guy that i said it back to, i really dont belive in it, but he made me belive. but now since we are both in high school now (he is a freshmen, i am a jounior) he dont talk to me anymore, at all. he says he has other girly friends to do my work for me, and he is alyways flirting with girls in front of me, he knows i still like him a bunch. what do i do, i really like him still, but i keep trying to convince my self that i dont. i like him but i hate myself for it. Are all boys like this? what do i do to get over him, or will i?

Are all girls the same? are all PEOPLE the same? no, not all boys are like that.

and if you're really that weak and vulnerable, no longer he doesn't take interest in you anymore. he hasn't necessarily matured or grown up, but he's moved on, so you should too. there's nothing to do other than ignore it and get on with life.

Well, you were an idiot to do that! Of course he only came back to get some more kissy kissy. Not all guys are like this, just the stupid ones. And it won't take very long to get over it. I'm sure next week some guy will say something to you and you're fall head over heels!

Seriously though, just because some guy says they love you means absolutely nothing. You were stupid to believe it

See by doing what you did, he now probably considers you easy and is now messing around with other girls. I'm sorry, but it's the truth. He's one of those guys who uses girls...and that's not the type of guy you want.

First of all...Why on earth do people do casual "messsing around"? GAH! Cannot you all control your hormones!!

*ahem* Anyways. Dear, he is a freshman boy. Now I'm not saying that ALL freshman boys are like this, but 95 % of them ARE. If he's going to be a horny bastard (I'm sorry. Naughty words.) than why, oh why, are you wasting your time on him? Find someone worth it. Many many boys think with their, shall we call it, boyhood, but many others do not. You're going to find someone who cares about what's above your waist and what's in your heart.

The point is, forget about him.