Need advice

  • Chelsey
    17 years ago

    Okay, I'm dating this guy named Jake.. (I know some of you know who he is and don't like the idea of me and him going out, so just dont make any comments on me and him please)
    and I met some of the friends since he made since the last time me and him where together.. And they aren't the best people. They do drugs and get in trouble, I've been in the drug world before and I got out, i dont want to get into it again.
    Jake isn't doing the drugs just his friends.
    But their still pressuring me to do drugs as well and I dont know what to do.

    Everytime his friends ask him to go out with them, he wants me to come too.
    I dont want to say no and make him sad and dissapointed or have him think that I dont want to be with him, but if I say yes Im afraid I'll get into old ways..

    Their nice people and they treat me nicely.
    But they are also nice people on drugs.
    And I have nothing against people that do drugs, I just dont want to get involved with them.

    What should I do?

    I've tried talking to Jake, he said "well then don't come with us, but I cant promise that I'll be able to hang out with you all the time then, cuz I'll be with them alot.. so its up to you, But I cant promise it will work for us then"

    so I'll admit.. I need advice.
    please?

    xoxo
    --Chelsey

  • Milton
    17 years ago

    He has so much time to make with them yet he can't put any aside to spend any with you? That doesn't make any sense.

    To be honest, it just looks like to me he just wants to be spending time with other people. I'm not sure how he's feeling about you with what he's doing but I don't know the guy.

    Just give him a little space then I guess. I don't know if he knows what he wants. Just call him and just talk to him to remind him that you always want to be there. it should blow over soon if it's not a big deal.

    And if they're trying to make you do any drugs then you're better off staying as far away from them as much as you like. They don't sound like the kind of people worth stressing over.

  • Chelsey
    17 years ago

    Lol.
    Well thanks guys.
    =]

    And I know it doesn't make since that he has time to spend with them and not me..
    But I respect his friends, like I know i should.

    Lukas?
    I didn't know you were on here?
    I haven't talked to you in a while.