Outsider's Opinion

Hey,

I would like an outsider's opinion on something. I have the choice to either invite my mom to my birthday party or not. If I do invite her the catch is that I have to invite her husband whom I hate (because he is a jerk and doesnt know how to act civil). My mom hasnt come to my past seven birthdays. Its annoying not having her, but having him tag along is even more frustrating. Can I just get an outsider's opinion on this? Im not looking for any quick solutions, just something for me to help make my decision. Please.

-Peace out-

p.s. I wasnt sure if I should put this in this forum, but it makes me sad to think about, so I figured itd fit here.

Personally, I think you should invite her.

Life is really short.... What if something was to happen to her before your next birthday, and you never got a chance to invite her again? (sorry, grim thought, but still...)

P.S. I just read your profile and now I am laughing way hard.... N... haha :)

^hmmm... that's a good point.

Maybe you can suggest a "birthday lunch" with your mom or something?

That way she doesn't feel like she isn't included... but you don't have to worry about her husband?

Invite your mom, shes the one that u can turn too, regardless of whatver may happened..
ur dad/step dad, if his acting like a jerk one, then tell it to ur mom, that way u have a better proof

Btw, Yes, this question is serious. I really need to fix that on my profile. And yes today is really my birthday.

Thanks guys for the help. I took the advice from a few of you. I talked to her today, and told her that Id like to go out to lunch just her and me. She said that would be fine. Then I plan on talking to her about her husband (my step father) while we're at lunch. Thanks guys for all your help. It really helped to have the outside opinion. If any of you need anything or just want me to R/R/C any of your poems in return, PM me. thanks.

Hahaha!
I think the boards get help voluntarily, Mo :P
But that offer was slightly humorous..hehe

"is it really ur bday?
do u really have problem dealing w/ ur dad?"

^ e-dee-it.

Don't change your profile, I like it.
Andddd, I'm with the mate above. I just wanted to post to tell the "do you really have a problem or are you lying" person to piss off.

hope i can say that. oh well if not.

Hey

My oppinion is to invite your mother because she is FAMILY and forget about that uncivil husband of hers. YOUR birthday is about YOU not him Or you can have your mum come another day while there is NO ONE there for your to be embarresed in frount of. A Birthday is a very SPECIAL day you only turn that number ONCE so dont let that silly man ruin it for you IGNORE him n let him look like the fool.