Fell in love with the "bad boy"

I fell in love with this guy who is into drugs and not doing good in school, he just doesnt try. And i'm not helping, I just want to tell him we're done and I can't take it anymore, but really I don't know how. I love him, just not the situation.

I really don't want it, and I feel uncomfortable when i'm with him now. I just don't know how to tell him that it's over.

It's hard having a boyfriend that does drugs and not good in school. My ex bf started smoking pot after his parents split up and then his grades were next. I broke up with him because I didn't want to be around it. We still keep in touch though and after he got into other drugs he finally got himself help.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about the situation. Break up with him if you feel the need and if he cleans up then maybe there will be another chance but you shouldn't have to be around it.

.:: my first bf was into drugs too, a school drop out and as much as i wanna help but his not helping himself. i never consider him as a bad boy, they dont need negative comment, they are the kind of a lost soul that needs guidance...

Wow i saw you topic and all i could think was "did i write that"? lol i was in your shoews in a on off relationship for 2 years hes into drugs with a gang and been stabbed 11 times he could do amazing in school but he doesnt want to try. My advice you love him and thats great but you love him enough to want him to stop he should love you enough to want to stop. Yes i love my ex with all my heart and there is nothing i mean nothing i wouldnt do for him even to this day but he has to want to change and i waited 2 years it didnt happen you dont want to lose that much of your life trust me. Tell him that you are looking out for your own well being and that if/when he decides his life is worth mopre you'll be there for him.

I agree with Tia and Mike. they give great advice

I have a similar situation...i like this kid mike, and well he graduated..just barely. he's not gonig to college, he has a crappy job, and he smokes and all kinds of stuff. i like him for who he is...just not the things he does. you have to try and help the situation, see if theres anything you can do to get him more focused and on task...if not you need to do whtas best for yourself. sometimes what we want isn't always best for us.

Well, i think you should really talk to him.....if you havent already and see is he actually listens. if he doesnt then i would say let go of him maybe he'll get the hint and smarten up

Be there done that ......if he really dose love you he'll change ....if not let him go , i know its going to hurt but what has to be done has to be done.