Unwanted...

Well recently my dad and me got in a huge fight! He wanted me to leave and he threw almost all my things outside. He told me to leave and that he hopes I make it in life and to never come back!!

During this stupid divorce my mom and dad are going through they have been telling stuff about each other....like eathier my mom is that bad guy or my dad and then after awhile I learned just to ignore it and go with it....

But then my dad started to tell me the truth about his life and he didn't want me to tell my brother....and when we got in our huge fight I said something about it with my brother in the room because he has to learn someday....anywayz my dad got really mad at me for it and something I did before that and I really can't remember what I did wrong...

But my question is--do you think my dad will come back to his sences and want me to come back home...

I think so. I just think it will take time. You probably shouldn't of told your brother whatever the truth was. Your father told you to keep it to yourself, and you didn't. You would probably have to make the first move and say you're sorry.

A councelor is not a choice in my situtation...if you knew the whole story then well it would be easier to understand...---and I am already living with my mom....but right now I am staying with my grandma--it's confusing! And the problem is I already said I was sorry and he didn't care...I said sorry about a thousands times in tears...!!

Hey
i sort of understand your situation i understand you told your brother because you were so angry from the fight with your dad n you obviously were out of control from all the anger within you. My advice is let your father cool down a bit and give him some space to sort things out for himself and he may comeback to his sences and if he doesnt want you back then he wasnt a good father anyway sorry to say.

I have never been though this, but my really close cuzin has. His mom throws him out all the time and he usually ends up with me. But, his mom always takes him back. I think that ur dad will come to his sences and want you to come back home. but, maybe it was such a good idea to tell ur brother about, your dad was probably just waiting for the right time to tell him and explain things to him, and he told you first because you were more mature and could take it better. No parent is cold-hearted enough to throw their own kid on the street and leave them there. He will accept you back, it just might take some time.. hope this helps! =0) thing will get better!!!!!!!!!!

Still, whatever it was, you should of had some respect and not said anything. A relationship is strong with trust, and you broke that! You never break that, especially in a family.

Just let him cool down, and give it a shot in a week or two.

Thnx for you opinions but the thing is it's a lot harder then that. I didn't say much to my brother and he might had already known anyways he isn't stupid and it's right there in front of his face...I had my reasons...all I wanted to know if anyone has went through this and has any advice.