What do you do when?...

  • Brandi
    17 years ago

    What do you do when you your boyfriend and your best friend goes out and she gets drunk as hell and says a lot of stuff that kinda makes you think. what do you do when she kisses the love of your life 3x's.. i thought i could out it behind me but i cant.. my boyfriend her that devin (her boyfriend would aprove of what she was doing and hoe she was actin..) she told him " what devoin wont know wont hurt him... then she kissed him the first time.. he told her to stop and that it was wrong cause she was like a sister to me... then she kissed him two more times.. i dont know what to do i am loosing my best friend but everytime i try to talk to her i think about what happened.. what should i do??

  • Awnya
    17 years ago

    Your boyfriend and best friend go out alone? or are you there with them? I find the two of them going out alone a bit odd. Sounds like you need to talk with both of them, together, and say enough is enough. Just my thoughts.

  • bequi
    17 years ago

    Wake up girL...
    open ur mind and not heart..
    dont get blinded
    reality hurts but do it now than later... it would end up with same thing...
    PAIN and Tears

  • Beautiful Chaos
    17 years ago

    If that is what you call a best friend, you really need to redefine friendship in your life. None of my friends would ever do that to me. The only question I see here is "why are you still calling her friend?"

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    I wouldn't be her friend! And I would have a serious fight with the boyfriend. I would end both relationships! they don't sound like a healthy relationship to me! Sorry hun! You deserve SO much better!

  • uuhhmmss
    17 years ago

    Is the person really ur friend or just using u or pretending that shes a friend??
    better talk to them and clarify things.. it would be bad to keep assuming

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    You re-evaluate the sorts of friends you want, and tell the former best friend to button up a bit. in otherwords before they end up burying her in a split coffin because she can't keep her legs closed.

    your boyfriend, get creative. in other words, dump both. focus on school, family, and better friends.

  • lover girl
    17 years ago

    If my best friend did that to me i would kill her ....... like wtf she clearly has no recpect for you

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    My first advice would be to talk to your best friend. But if you have already done that, and it hasn't gotten you anywhere, you do have to think about the friendship. Yes, you might consider her a best friend. But does she? If you wish to not let the friendship go down the drain then she must start treating you better...at least have some consideration for your feelings.
    Your boyfriend too, it is a good thing that he was telling her to stop. Meaning he WAS thinking there. But regradless, he should not be fooling around with your best friend.
    This is a tough situation you're in. If none of the talking (to best friend or bf) work then I think you do have to go a bit into the extreme and remove both of them from your life.

    I agree with Prophecies In Kodak:
    "your boyfriend, get creative. in other words, dump both. focus on school, family, and better friends."

    ^It might have to come to that. Sorry hun.

    Good luck! =]
    --Viola

  • Jenni Marie
    17 years ago

    She's doing that crap and you still consider her a friend? wake up and smell the roses. she isn't no friend of your's.