Cheating

Many people, even though they would never cheat on their bf/gf, would mess around with someone who has a bf/gf because technically thats not them cheating... what's your opinions on that? personally, i have done it before in my younger years, but am totally against it now after a few guys have cheated on me... nobody should do that to anyone. now that i know how it feels to have someone do that to you.. i could not cause another girl to have that happen to her.

I wouldn't want to be the reason for a broken relationship or heart. If you know he/she has a gf/bf and you still go ahead and mess around with them then you are just being selfish.
That's the way I see it.

--Viola

To each their own, but I would personally not want to be a third wheel and chances are if they are willing to cheat with you, they are or would be willing to cheat on you.

"chances are if they are willing to cheat with you, they are or would be willing to cheat on you."
thats my philosophy.
i cant be the cause of a broken heart... no no no.

I think that anything like that is considered cheating. I think that if you are in a relationship you should not even flirt. That's not right, if you care for someone, then you should be with THAT person.

I think there is obveously a huge difference between cheating and messing around with a guy and the difference between just being friends!

I think it's TERRIBLE!! if u dont love that peerson enough tto not do anything with anyone else in a flirty way, then GOD! DO YOUR SELF A FAVOUR AND NOT GO OUT WITH THEM!

Its so unloyal and observed!! wouldnt u at least have the self dignity and have respect for the person who ur going out with to at least nt flirt with anyone except ur gf or bf. like, thats the whole point of having a gf/bf! TO NOT CHEAT OR FLIRT WITH ANYONE ELSE!

Lol^ i used to get so mad when my boyfriend would be all flirty.. oh boy, got me going, especially since i was always [still am] super faithful.
hes stopped though.. gottim whipped, lmao.

I think it's selfish!

Cheating is bad news, and it hurts. why would u ever want to make anyone feel that way. its uncalled for.

K, this is a topic that I have personal problems with =P First of all I'm naturally a flirty person and most times I don't even realize I'm doing it =P It's just something about me that the guy normally knows before hand and most guys I go out with are like that too =P We both deal with it ^_^ So I don't think flirting with someone is being unloyal ^_^

I've been cheated on, although the girl that he did it with says that they at least waited till a few hours after he dumped me to do it *yeah right =P* and I know that it really hurts. It's the one thing that I can't forgive in either myself or a man I love =P I've messed around with one of my ex's while I had a bf once and felt horrible and unclean afterwards =( I'd thought that I still loved my ex but loved my bf at the same time so I messed around a little bit with my ex to see if he could make me feel anything close to what my bf at the time did =P One of the stupidest things I've done, I never told my bf but it changed how I handled the relationship quite a bit =( My ex knew that I loved my bf and still pushed me into it but I should've said no =( Believe me, messing around is the same as cheating =( You should never put your bf/gf through something like that and you should never be cruel enough to mess with someone that has a bf/gf =( What you do to other people comes back to you, it's called karma