Im a mother whos treated like a child, plz help

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Talk with ur family that since ur a mother now, explain that u need to grow up, be independent and act like a mother...

you just need to open up with ur family whatever bothers you since they are the only one who can be with u in any trouble that u may encounter.

a good and open communication is still the best practice. and also u might want to consider proving that u are a grown up kid now. u done a mistake once, and u surely had learn from it

G

Wheeew ur a muslim, good thing that ur family accepted and sheltered u.. im not a muslim but got couple of friends who are muslim and i know how strict the parents are, how they stick on ur beliefs and practices and how scared they are in committing mistake..

give ur parents a little more time and again prove ur worth, dont demand too much since u started the whole mess

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I done what i did because the in my religion they kill girls even for looking or talkin to other men, i got pregnant so could you imagine what i thought what they could have done to me, go search 'honour killings' on the internet and you'll knw exactly what im talking about. So if you thought your life was at risk you wouldnt have ran away from home?

Maybe you should of stayed with your sister. If you don't want this life you have to change it now! I like how you are trying to get assistance to go to school, but maybe you should consider assistance for housing. You are 19 and deserve your independence and freedom. I agree with Britt that running away was immature, but you had your reasons. I personally think you should either go back with your sister, or just move out for good. People are out there to help women like you!

I did work my ass of in school, i finished school and went to college, but now i want to do medicine so iv to go back to school again because i dont have the points. None of you know the full content of my life so forget i even said anything!

Woow britt ur a mods now... congrats

i think the best thing that u can do right now is try to cooL down the whole issue. im not a muslim by religion but i also got friends and even an ex whose a muslim. i need to agree with uuhhmmss and britt.

We are not judging u or pointing finger on u but girL, if u sum up the whoLe thing, u started the problem right? u cant just simpLy waLk back home and gain their trust. u need to work on it.

its sad to be treated Like a prisioner ( i can reLate on that. was put on girL dormitory when i was 14 yr oLd tiLL i coLLege, its manage by nuns and my routine is schooL and dorm i become rebellious too).
but since im stiLL depending on them during those time that im studying, i prove them that i can be who i am.

my point is, work on with there trust, u have nothing yet but ur baby. be rebeLLious if u have to, thats part of our Life chaLLenges, but pLay safe.