She's gone

I need some advice or something. My girl left me for another guy, but she keeps emailin me tellin me she loves me and misses me. He was in a band I was makin, my drummer. She tells me she's liked him for a while. I think I'm hallucinating sometimes, like she's hauntin me. I see her everywhere, callin me. What should I do?

She left you, so it's time to move on. Concentrate on other aspects of your life, and do whatever you need to do to get over her. There's nothing else you can do.

She left you for your drummer? you shouldn't need to ask for any advice when the answer is already clear. she's not worth it. move on.

Some girls have told me straight up that when they move on to a new guy, some part of them still wants the old guy to love them and want them forever, even if they don't want to be with that guy. Just something to consider if she's still sending mixed signals.

Why would that be something to concider? Clearly, even though she may be sending mixed signals, she left you for the drummer.

If that happened to me, I'd try my hardest to move on for the simple reason that I am not going to wait until she MIGHT change her mind and come back to me. That'd be a waste of time.

Your best bet is to move on.

Sorry for the confusion, that's what I meant. That she might be sending those mixed signals ie. saying she misses and loves you, but really, she doesn't want to get back together, she just wants you to keep feelin for her.

I see...

"My girl left me for another guy, but she keeps emailin me tellin me she loves me and misses me."

^So what is she planning on two-timing you guys? I don't get it. She needs to make up her mind. It's one way or another. She can't be with both of you.

Sweetie.. honestly, you deserve so much better than that. I know it's going to be hard to move on.. it'll take some time, but whatever you do, don't crawl back to her. If she left you for another guy, she obviously doesn't see how truly wonderful you are and in my eyes doesn't deserve you. Viola is right, it sounds like she's planning on two-timing you guys and you shouldn't fall for it. When you're with someone like that, you'll only end up getting hurt in the end.. you need to move on. You should find someone that deserves you and won't leave you for another guy. Goodluck!!!

^Yes, I agree with all that.
Don't settle for less. I'm sure you are so much better than that. :)

Tell her to stop calling you. She LEFT you. She can't come back! she skrewed you over, and now she's playing with your feelings. Man, I'm sorry.

Just go on man, now you can pick up where she left off and make it twice as good.

You will end up being better off without her anyway. Just move on with your life. Bigger and better things await you.