I think I did something wrong..advice. please.

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    Well. A little over a month ago, I started dating this really wonderful guy. His name is Pat. And he is the best boyfriend I have ever had. Well. We have known eachother for about 2 yearish...Well I found out that he liked me for over a year now and This past year, my feeling have grown for him.

    Well. The problem is, I had this friend, who I also found out that she liked him. But in the process of trying to hook them up, it fell for him really hard. Well. I also found out that he didnt like her at all and he told her that. Well him and I started talking a lot and I went to his house and we ended up dating.

    Now I dont have that friend anymore. But I dont think that was the only reason. See I found out before all this that she was talking about me behind my back, and we were 'suppose' to be friends but she did. So after that I didnt feel bad, So I dont know if I did something wrong.

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    True, but I just dont know if it was my fault that we arent friends anymore, and we had so many good memories....but my boyfriend is so amazing.

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    Boys will come and boys will go, but a friend will be there forever.

    With that said I want you to understand that a TRUE friend will always be there no matter the situation or cicumstance.

    I, personally, do not think that you have done anything wrong.

    If this "friend" was a true friend then she would not have talked about you in a negative manner behine your back. She would not have bailed either when you started to date you current boyfriend.

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    True true. And I heard that saying before...boys will come and boys will go but friends will be there forever, but in her case she wasnt being a real friend either. But I felt bad about it and didnt know what to do.