To much confusion

OK i need advice . I've been with my bf for a lil over a month . Things goin pretty good except he loves me and he tells me that and i dont love him because of a previous relationship i had when my whole heart was torn out and stepped on. Now the problem is it's getting to serious to fast .And another thing is i was kinda pushed into this relationship by my best friend and my bf is her bf's best friend . So i know i'm kinda with him for the same reasons but i'm not even playin he dreams, sleeps and breaths me . And he's sooo awesome but i know he's not for me and i dont want to jus break^ with him after christmas cuz then he'll think i used him for presents or some crap . And i just dont want to hurt him but i'm scared and i want out but then again i dont now do u see why i'm so confused ?!?!?

*Alexis*

hey well i can understand ur dont want ne one hurt but ur hurtign yrself.you need to be true to your heaet and do what makes you happy.if you know he snot teh one for you and your not a 100% in the realtionship you shoudlnt be in it.it will acatully only hurt the guy more the longer you prolong it.if he is already very much inot you his feelings will only continue to build which will only leave him more hurt in the long run.you should not have to stay with someone due to feeling bad for them or for dating them cause its ur freinds bfs friend. tell him neicely of course when u do it.make it clear it was not anyhting wrong hes done but that its not fiar to you or him to continue teh realtionship when the feelings for him are not there. you can also tell him you have not recoverd fom your last break up and you need time alone.your friend might be mad or she wil udnerstand but you need to do whats best for you and not worry about them. feelinsg will get hurt whetehr you do it nw r later anyway so ist much better to do it before it gets out of hand. good luck.

oo wow spenning image of what happend to me..make your new boyfriend promis to be friends with you when you guyes break up becuz you dont want to lose that. and then let him down easy. i know how you feel with this. except i really fell for the guy. but yeah you just have to let him know that you where presured and your not ready and a friendship is what upi need now more then anything and if he really likes you as much as he says he does then he will understand. hope this helped.
love ya
sarah