HELP on guys and a relationship

Im ssoo confused i need some help on guys

Ok this is the problem....................

m,y ex is still HEAD OVER HEALS in love with me and i like someone else
and a 18 year ol dREALLY likes me and im still in lve with this "someone else and i dont knwo what to do
and can anyone help

Follow your heart, though becareful who you hurt on the way. It is honestly upto you what you do. No one can make up your mind. If your heart is telling you to be with a certain someone then trust it.

So what if he's still in love with you. he's your EX. ex's are ex's for a reason. you moved on. he should to and he shouldn't stop you from moving on. your profile says you are 14, so just remember that not only is there a big age difference between you and the 18 year old who likes you, it would also be illegal for you to get "Intimate" with him...and he could be prosecuted if you did. as Mel said, follow your heart...but make sure it's the RIGHT choice and that there is no serious consequences by doing so.

What the heck do you need help on ?
So what if these two guys like you; it isn't any of their business what you do or who you feel affection for, and it shouldn't affect you and your feelings for this "someone else."

Im with Britt your EX is just infacuated with you right now, but he will move on just dont sit here and give him attention because you feel bad for him...that one help either one of you... and as for the 18 year old you must like him a little too if your asking us about him i mean if thats the case then you have to choose because we cant do that for you but if you dont like this 18 year old then tell him that you guys can just be FRIENDS unless he wants to go to jail... i think if you like this other guy then thats who you should be focused on but wait till you grow up a little bit more...Good luck

Yeah im a freshmen
and i just satarted high school and he said he "really" likes me
and jon my ex is all over me and i told him to get off me but he
comes rightback
and all of my friends ar saying i should go back out with him
but i like gavin and only gavin
and im sick of all the drama and it wont go away and all the girls that like jon start crap with me when i go out with him and
he "says" he doesnt care about them
when hes all over them too
so thnx i just dont know

Jon- byebye.
in fact, boys at all, byebye.
they complicate everything.
but, if you must date...dont date the guy who is, well,

crap.

Edit due to profanity...This is your first warning.

You are fourteen years old; there is no logical reason that an 18 year old should be trying to court (date) you little alone having any type fo relationship with you.

You will do what it is that you want; however I will say that attempting any type fo relationship with this boy will only cause more harm and heartache in the long run.

You need to take this time to just chill out with friends your age. If you are insisting on dating or a relationship with anyone at this time I would make sure that they are no older than 16.

Look at it this way... If you date this boy it would be the same thing as if you dated a ten year old.

Yes, there is a huge difference in the maturity and mental thoughts between a 10 year old and a 14 year old. There is the same HUGE difference between a 14 year old and an 18 year old.

I do not recommend this scenerioe for anyone. Not to mention that there are laws rearding such situations that may land the boy in jail and registered with the National Sex Offender Registery for the rest of his life.

It could ruin his future and any hopes that he may have at gaining a good job.

If I were you I would not do it, but if the tempation was there then I would take a good long look at the risk involved.

Before anyone can offer any advice on the "someone else" there is vital information that needs to be given to us first.

If I said I like someone else other than my ex and then there is this 16 year old that has a rush on me, but I still like this someone else... you would want more information about the someone else.... he could be a child molester, rapist, ban robber, murder, or 12 years old for that matter.

The point is that there is a lack of information provided for anyone to offer sound advice.

~~Sher

I think age shdnt matter-as long as u no dat he IS a good person. i was 15 wen i went out with a 21 yr old. which sounds real bad by numbers, but he was very sweet. as long as u no 4 certain dis guys is a gentleman etc den be with him. who cares but ur ex-ur feelngs dont belong dere hun

Well the 18 year old is a very nice guy and all but i dont like him like that and he isnt really like a guy i would like but i still like this one guy sich his friends stabbed me in the back so i am really confused

Ok well i took y'alls advise and i ditched that croud and hung out with all my old friends more and im REALLY happy that i did because 2 weeks after that half of them went to jail for auto theft and under age driving after a party that they invited me to which i decided not to go to
so im really happy about that