{What Happened on Sweetest Day!}

Alright so me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately, because tech. we are not together but we still do everything that we did before and even he said that its basically like we are together....its gonna be 6 months for us on the 24th...! Ok but last night he finally told me one of the main reasons we are not together...He said that he is scared to put himselfout there and then he is going to get hurt. See im leaving for the Navy on June 30th and he doesnt want me to leave even though he knows its a great oppurtunity for me! He says he trys not to think about it but everytime he is with me it pops in his head and he holds back on telling me that he is falling for me. But last night he told me that he was falling for me and i started to cry when i got off the phone with him because i love him and the last thing i want to do i hurt him and but i cant just let him go..he means a lot to me....but what do i do i mean he could wait for me but i dont know...any advice?

No Britt hes never done anything like that...i think you have us mistaken...i mean you give so much advice to people im sure sometimes you can get mixed up, but thats fine...Your advice is much appreciated. So what do i say to him....what do i do...

Yes i understand but i also understand that he is scared and i mean he has never been in love before and just the fact that he said that he is falling for me just makes me scared for him because what happens if i do hurt him...but not on purpose i mean you need to understand how much i care about him i mean he means the world to me...and last night we basically put the tittle back on our relationship so..yea now what?

Oh and Britt when did you become a "moderator" congrats!

Thanks....it really helps me. And your welcome

Tell him, if he loves you like he says he does, to shut the hell up and take a chance, because when you love someone, all you can do is throw your all into that relationship.

in my humble opinion.

Yea thats what i was thinking too, but he didnt say that he DID love me he said that he is falling in love with me....so i dont know i just know that i care a lot about him