HELP ME ( not sure how to tell my bf how i feel)

  • dezie
    17 years ago

    Ok we have been togehter for 3 months now and im so much in love and i dont know how to tell him how i feel i mean if i could i would marry him now but i cant how do i tell him i think he is my soul mate ???????

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    Three months.. That's a little soon.

    You'll proably scare him, to be honest.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Well, tell him "I think you're my soul mate". Simple enough. If you're not comfortable enough to tell him that, then perhaps you shouldn't be.

    However, you're probably pushing it to say it so soon. Most people are scared of commitment enough as it is- three months is probably not enough time for him to decide that you are his soul mate. I would wait, it's likely that you're overwhelmed with feelings towards him (as everyone is in the beginning of romantic relationships), and are assuming that means you want to spend your whole life with him. Three months isn't enough time to make that decision.

  • Choose xX Alex Xx Life
    17 years ago

    You could tell him your falling real deep for him and youre glad youve got him with a big smile ...

  • uuhhmmss
    17 years ago

    Telling him wont do go, he might just take advantage of ur obessesion.
    its just 3motnhs, u havent been into problem that will test ur relationship.

    (,"o(",)

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    MATE. SLOW DOWN.

    you're thinking way ahead of yourself. you've been with him, what, three months and you're thinking marriage and soul mates? i think you're excitment of being in a relationship is causing you to think too much. calm down. you're old enough to know that relationships do not work when you rush into things and don't stop to think.

  • dezie
    17 years ago

    I know what u mean i mean i feel it and the thing is he told me the same thing and i did nto know what to do he told me it when i was with another guy and he loves me ever sence he saw me in 8th grade and he never got the guts to tell him how he feels intill i wanted to date another guy and he has been telling me he loves me for so long its been like 2 years now but i never got the clue that he thinks im his soul mate and that the lord brought us together and that he wants us to be together so im nto sure what to do he told me yesterday he has fallen so much in love wiht me he thinks he would dye wiht out me help me what do i do

  • alicia
    17 years ago

    Just tell how you feel in your heart and he will love you more for it thats what i do

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    You slow down.

    Or your relationship will crumble.

  • Christianna
    17 years ago

    Well, marriage isn't the question now.
    don't ever ever bring it up or you'll scare him away.

    to tell him you think he's your soul mate.
    just tell him that you think you guys have loads in common[I hoped] and that you always feel good with him around.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Be happy. dont rush things. you have forever, if it's meant.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    ^Agreed. If you truly believe he IS your solemate then you will be with him for a very long time. No need to hurry anything up, that usually messes things.

    So tell him you love him too, if that is how you feel. Just don't be in such a rush for anything hun.

    --Viola

  • dezie
    17 years ago

    Thanks you guys so much lasted night i talk to him and told him we needed to slow down i mean it is alot for me and so i asked him to slow down and he said he would so im thankful for it and lasted night he said i love you and i said it back so thanks for the advice

  • Melvin LeVeque
    17 years ago

    Congtatz!

  • dezie
    17 years ago

    Well guys me and my bf talked i told him i know you think im your soul mate and all but u nerve know what is oging to happen after we graqd high school i mean i know your parents got marryed 5 years after they meet yah they ment in high school the same year we did there senior year well they began dateing senior yera so his mom thinks its funny her and his dad began dateing there senior year of hs and now me and her sone began dateing our senior year and she hopes i marry her sone in 5 years but its kinda of werid but yah

    we talked and now he is takien this slower and im happy now cuz i dont have to worry about teeling him we are going to slow and it is really cool
    well im off ttyl
    dezie lyn

  • kori
    17 years ago

    I really just have no idea what that last post said.