Help with a girl is needed.

Okay, I like this girl Emily. As you can tell, if you read most of my poems, I really like her. The problem is, she knows that I do like her and she doesn't like me back like that. We're good friends but I want to be more than that. I've thought about trying to win her over with my poems. To all the girls here, what would you do if one of your friends, of the opposite sex, gave you a poem he wrote himself describing his feelings about you? Other than that, any other advice would help. Thanks in advance.

P.S. If it helps, I've been told I'm very good looking.

Lets see.
If you're good looking.. you write good poems..
I think this girl is blind.
Hahha.
Ok well if one of my really good guy friends did that I would...............vomit. There was only one of mine that I actually went out with but he was a looooot shorter than me I mean up to my boobs. And we didn't last long because it was odd going from best friends to going out. And all my other guy friends are.. ugly to the max.. and they can be huge jerks so you know.. maybe being friends is better. If not then she will realize she is madly inlove with you and you two can fly away on your magic carpet and sing the Aladdin song... A whole new world.

i think u're romantic...juz wait for her....i think she is not ready yet....

Wow, so much input! I'm not one to wait for long though. Besides, she's a junior and I'm a sophomore, I can't wait for too long. If I don't have her by the time she's a Senior, something is seriously wrong with me. lol Next month, we are having a dance and that's when I'll make my move. Plus, it's a more formal, romantic type dance, so that helps. Keep em' coming.

Personally, if a guy gave me a poem written by him, about feelings towards me (and depending on our relationship) I'd either be:
a. freaked out
b. freaked out at first, then think it's cute and sweet.

But I'm just going to add to that:
that's probably because of my age, I don't really want anything romantic.
She will probably be entirely different.
Good luck with it.

I'm sorry you have to go through that. If a guy gave me a poem containing his feelings towards me, I would think again about my feelings towards him. Writing and giving a poem to someone has so many meanings. It shows how sweet and romantic a guy is, how deep their feelings are, and many other things. If I had any feelings for him at all, I would think about those, and always consider his feelings.

this emily really doesn't know what she is doing. i mean if a guy told me how he felt through a poem i would fall in love. but maybe to her, the spark just isn't there, which would be a problem. the grade thing may also be a factor, but i'm really not sure since i don't know her. she may not like you now.. but maybe she will later. you will never know with us.

That is true, you can never tell with women. lol

LOL... i'm really sorry about the way she doesn't see you that way. and as much as you don't want to hear it, you may just have to get over her.. but take your time. best of luck:)

xoxo
rayn

Seth...These people have VERY good points...I had a best friend that was a guy ...A year younger than me Also like you...(but he didnt write poems) He had the biggest crush on me...Well the point im tryin to get at is Dont think that she may not like you...Even if she tells you she dont ...I think her Biggest problem is If you guys are BEST friends then shes probably scared to Lose that if you guys Break up or she realizes your not a boyfriend type to her...She Probably Likes you but shes confused as much as you are...I tihkn you should Give her the poema dn she how she reacts...Give her a little space and then maybe JUST maybe shell opem up to you but dont push it!! That is what Girls Think about is Guys that are Obsessed!! im not saying you are but to her it may feel like it if you give her no space!! Need anymore advice or you like mine then E-mail me at attitudechik4291@aol.com

First of all, I'm sure everyone on this site would LOVE a poem from a guy for obvious reasons. Second, I'd recommend giving it some time...charm her a little...I'd hold off on the poem until you know she likes you. Hope it helps.

lol...wonder why??? Hmm...

*ahem* sry bout that

I think I will just get the poem to her someday soon. Maybe I'll tape it to her car or give it to her. I mean, what have I got to lose?

id be totally flattered!!! it shows that you took the time to make her something personal for her. girls love that! good luck with emily!

Seth-
Let her fall in love with you. Love cannot really be won over. Us men make a mistake of trying to hold on to a woman, to try and make them like us somehow.. Women are caring, loving, sensative and desire to be loved just as much as men do. Take it slow, be consistant, dont cleave unto her, and most of all, show her you are going to love her even if she just wants to be friends, because a person such as you will find the perfect match, when she realises she will have to share you with other girls intimately she just may come closer to you.

So does that mean get her to like me before I give the poem to her or what? It was very deep though!

*if a one of my friends gave me a poem describing his feelings about me i'll be...

1. flattered (as any girl probably would be)

2. uncomfortable (as i've already said my feelings about you)

3. confused/doubtful (friendship is a touchy thing when it comes to relationships)

*i'd do...

1. absolutely nothing but blush/stutter while i read your poem

2. thank you for it "awkwardly"

3. think twice about "us"

4. or maybe drift away from you more (if i feel like you're way into this since you've given me this poem)

...that's honest as i could get... i say give her the poem and see how she reacts?