Not ready for love??

Yesterday my friends and i were talking about boys. I'm alway to one giving advices but suddenly one of my friend ask me "you know i never hear that you like any one" im thinking that is true. i never really cared about having a bf. my friend say it was bc im independent. Independent? it is not like i don't like any one. Is just that my crush only least a week or two. it if i like some one i will never tell them any way. Sad. love is alway like thrid place to me. DO you get a feel that im not ready to love??

When you want to be in a relationship you will be in one. The only one who knows what you're ready for is you.

I have been married and divorced. To be honet I am at a point where I could care less about a relationship.

Some people have to be involved with a partner to define who they are, and I find this to be very sad.

Being independant does not mean that you do not get a crush or find yourself attracted to another person, but it does show that you are ok being yourself and that you do not need a partner to establish who you are.

When the time comes there will be a special person that catches your eye and you will be head over heels for them.

Until then just live your life. Stay with school and the activities that you enjoy.

There is nothing wrong with being single and staying focused.

It sounds to me that you actually have your head on straight.

~~Sher

Wen your ready you'll just know.

Love:
True or not even real???

I do agree with the previous posts above

Its fine to focus on other aspects of your life right now..theres no rush or pressure to go and find a bf.when u really really like someone or u feel like u might really want a boy in your life..im guessing u will know..its okay...

I honestly dont know about love no more, I wanted to give up on love altogether but it was some thing about my past crush that i talk to every so often that reminded me of that buzzing, happy feeling that made me think i shant give up all hope on then not just yet....

Although there is no pressure to get a boy friend were i live i still crave that feeling for that speical some one to be there for me.

Mitsuki: in a way it seems you might not be ready for love.
If your not thinking of guys as more then a mate then dont rush your self to thoughs feelings, just wait and enjoy life how it comes =] as you have been you will know when you fall in love, because its a feeling like non other :P

I agree with Sherry.
I notice my peers are soo dependant on guys/girls that they have no idea who they really are. It amazes me how someone can jump from person to person. I think it is a great thing that relationships are not the biggest focus in your life. I admire you.
=]