No Love For Me...

when u love urself and have higher esteem your whole way of acting changes. guys like girls who feel good about themsleves tehy dont wnat to be with somone who always puts them self down.once you start apprciating yourself more ...more people will respond to that and take notice.

For the most part I think everyone here has provided some advice that makes sense.

In high school everyone seems to envy or to loathe the cheerleaders and the jocks because they are the ones that seem to have all the advantages. But they and their cliques only represent maybe 2% of the student body so there is a whole different reality for the other 98%. It is unfortunate that such superficial role models have become part of our culture because it is all based on shallow, empty ideas.

If you are feeling inadequate about yourself and your relationships, I would urge you to read the book *Being a Woman: Fulfilling Your Femininity and Finding Love* by Dr. Toni Grant. This is one of the two best books out of many I have come accross that were wriiten by women and for women on the subject of finding love and happiness.

Everything else I know about life I learned at a poker table.
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lol wow guys like gilrs with low self esteem cause there easy ...... jeez .. id think teh lower self esteem the more self consciuos a girl would be baout her body which lessens teh chance of her takign her clothes off.. and in my experience with real guys not lil boys -not directed at you at all comet- guys do tend to go for teh girls who know who they are and feel good about themselves .. no guy wnats to always reassure his gf that shes pretty/smart etc etc gets annoying after a while.

Bob, I wholly agree with what you said about the difference between men who are attracted to women with self confidence and those who seek women with low self esteem.
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I quit playing poker before the era of online casinos. The first year was exhilarating. The next was OK. After that I was on the way to terminal burnout, mainly because I thought I was going to be spending my life in the card rooms. Then I had the good fortune to be "rescued" by someone who has been my boss, associate, mentor, client and partner. That association eventually led to further opportunities.

I never thought of poker as poetry. But it is all about lessons in life and in human nature. Every day is a continual learning experience. I met some fascinating and intriguing people along the way whose influence had a profound effect on me. Fortunately, though, hardly any of them were competent poker players. :-) Of course you NEVER tell anyone that. Lol! I probably have rambled on too long here.

Happy New Year to Everyone! --Lydia

You WILL find a person who loves you for who you are... trust me. I thought love sucks. I was ready to give up on it all together, but then Ethan came along... I don't think I am beautiful, or pretty... But he does... even if it is on the inside...they will love you for YOU.

Otay, some people are very lucky and find love in the blink of an eye and others find it later on in life...guys aren't the best people to have to love...but sooner or later that one special person comes around and you'll know...JUST DON"T GIVE UP HOPE!

Guys ruin your life.