Shes always getting in the way

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    There is this girl at my school and she is always trying to come between relationships. She tried it with me and my boyfriend and then with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. Now she is trying to come between another one of my friend's relationships. I don't understand why she would even want to do it but what can I do to make her stop? Talking to her like a normal person doesn't work and screaming and yelling doesn't work. I just don't know how to make her understand that what she is doing is so horrible.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    There's the next problem she has a boyfriend! Thats what makes the whole thing that much more crazy. We've all tried ignoring her but when she is sending your boyfriend letters, e-mails, texts, and calling them it's kind of hard too.
    I just want to throw her into the table like 10 times. haha. I just don't get it.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Yeah. If that were to happen I think she just might mysteriously be found dead. haha.
    They have told her that and she says "You really don't want me too leave you alone. You know you really like the attention. Your just saying it because (me, or my friends name here) is telling you too.
    AHHHHHHH!!!!! I want to throw her out of a moving car.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Yeah, I have decided that too.
    I think she needs professional help.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    I don't even know if he knows about it. He doesn't go to our school.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Yeah. We'll just have to figure out how to get in touch with him. God knows I don't want to talk to her to find out how. haha.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Haha. okay. We could do that. hmmm... this is going to be good.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    I know what you mean. I hate having to act like that. thats why I asked for advice in the first place. I just don't know how to get through to this girl. its terrible. I probably won't do it for a while though. I'm just going to try to ignore her the best I can and if that doesn't work then I guess I will do what I have too.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    She is always telling our boyfriends that she loves them and anytime she sees them she will just jump on the give them a huge hug and a kiss on the cheek then leave. She'll call them and try to convince them that they would be better off with her and blah blah blah. OH it makes me so mad. I'm just glad our boyfriends are faithful and not falling into her games. I just want her to give up on it though because I really just want to punch her in the face.

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    Oi. You tell her, 'Careful, before they have to bury you in a split coffin because they couldn't close your legs.' How priceless.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Haha. that would be great.

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    OMG, that was hillarious!! I love the split coffin thing.

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    KODAK MOMENT! (: Seriously though, I was being light hearted to say... Dont let girls like that get to you. I dated one, and life later slapped her in the face when people started calling her the town bike. 'Everyone gets a ride.' Ignore her and go with whatcha got.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    I commend you for not hitting her.
    because if she did that to me, she wouldn't have been physically able to do it a second time.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Yeah, I'm too that point. The only thing holding me back is I actually want to graduate.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Pfft. I know a guy like that. I should send him over to her lol.

    There's sadly really nothing you can do, if you can't just convince her to lay off. You can try talking to her, but that obviously won't work. Hopefully, she'll eventually grow up and realize why she doesn't have any friends anymore.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    The only thing holding me back is I actually want to graduate.

    DONT DO IT ON SCHOOL GROUNDS!! :D:D:D:D
    hahaha violence is not the answer. at least for you guys. =-p

    "Oi. You tell her, 'Careful, before they have to bury you in a split coffin because they couldn't close your legs.' How priceless."

    btw^, i stole that. said it to a girl in lunch, cracked up, too. =]

  • TrueLovesVictim
    17 years ago

    She sounds like an attention whore to me. 2 of my friends who are in relationships are going through the same thing. and its the same girl bothering both the guys. the only thing is the guys don't say anything to her but the girls on the other hand keep getting mad about it. i just try to put thought into the girls head that the guy is still with her, the guy still loves her, and still comes home to her, not the other girl so she shouldn't worry about it.

    But if it gets to out of hand you have every right to be shady and go along with that plan of yours and Britt's

  • The Angel of Secrets
    17 years ago

    She must be jealous or something. Perhaps she's struggeling with someting?
    Ooor, she could just not be aware of it.

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    Props to you, Danielle. Bet you that shut her right up.