Do you ever sit and wonder...

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    After you see an ex, do u ever sit and wonder, wats goin through their mind when they get home..if they miss you or not? If they just feel the same way too..omg, those questions, they kill me eachc and every day ! :(

    Do you ever sit and wonder or am i just (edited)

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  • He is the Reason
    17 years ago

    Lols No sweetie your not being retarded at all, it's quite normal to do that if you really cared for that ex lols I used to do it all the time with my last ex-bf and I can't say that I don't still wonder what he thinks when he sees me or if he misses and maybe regrets some of the choices he made or what he thinks when he sees me with another guy but I think thats quite normal lols In my case though it's just because I'm curious what he thinks now since I'm far from who I was when I was with him lols These kinds of questions used to tear me apart a few months ago but then I realized that I was better off without him so it stopped tearing me apart everytime I saw him and now I'm just curious because thats my nature lols I don't know if that answered your question or if I'm way off in right field but thats what I feel lols And I don't think your being retarded at all ^_^
    ~*Rhea*~

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    IM REALLY curious.
    reacon i could ask him?

    I really miss him.
    Hes so awesome.
    We spoke the other day on msn.
    He told me he built the dream car that we were talkn about, and was refering to some of the stuff we used to always dream and talk about .

    I WANT TO KNOW IF HE MISSES ME.
    HE SAID HE`D TAKE ME BACK WEN I FINISHED SCHOOL.
    BUT IM TOO AFRIAD TO ASK OR CALL HIM BAKC :(
    i mis him.

  • Anonymous Angel
    17 years ago

    Well you could ask him, but I dont know what kind of person he is...if he is nice and still friendly towards you then you could ask him..but if he acts cools and keep distances when he sees you then I would not ask him if I was you.

    but like you said, he said he would take you back after you finished school..why then? why not now? and why did you two broke up in the first place if he wants you back after you finished school? I dont understand..

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    Maybe he wos jus being nice wen he said he`d take me back wen i finished school. I recently finished school. We broke up because my parents didnt want boyfriends until the school thing was over and he was sick of hiding it after 2 years. =[ its so sad. I really love him. . . and miss him ! Like seeing him and hearing bout him, makes me so much more interested. I LOVE HIM:( it hurts.

  • brianna
    17 years ago

    OH MY GOSH HUN!!! i totally know what you are talkin about...me and luke (my ex) broke up on sunday and all i do is wonder whether or not he is thinkin about me...and the thing is...it feels stupid to ask because you dont wanna push em away in hopes they will come back!! i am totally all in tune with what youre goin through!!

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    We broke like a year and 2 months ago. !
    it hurts so much...i remeber every word, every step his walk his hari everything !! :(
    I WANNA Jus msg him n say DO U MIS SME !
    DO U WANNA BE WITH ME !

    sad thing is hes dated alot of girls while we have been apart. I miss him so much...
    I want him back, he didnt come back then..wat makes me think hes going to come back now.

    It wos like meant to be.

    "what is meant to be, will always find its way"
    i hope he finds his.

  • brianna
    17 years ago

    Im sure he will...guys are sooooo senseless, he will wake up eventually...i swear all you gotta do is believe and dont be scared to just go : Hey, listen..i gotta know, do ya miss me at all...dont be scared its completely normal to wonder that...and those other girls...gotta be rebound. you seem to be an unconditional kinda girl...he'll realize that and be kicking himself all the way back

  • marilyn marti
    17 years ago

    Yup of course i wonder..i wonder if he ever regrets the way he treated me..but then i realize, I'm happy hes gone
    ;)

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    If he hasnt realized .. in 1 yr n 2 months.
    i think he`ll never relize
    to much pridei tell you !

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    I used to wonder that.. not anymore, as i'm not concerned with any guy but my boyfriend. but hey, ill sit there and wonder how much he thinks about me, and how much he thinks about me.

  • He is the Reason
    17 years ago

    Lols I completely agree with Marilyn Marti lols Thats how I am with all my ex's lols I'm quite happy with the guy I have now *even though the distance makes it hard sometimes* and although all the small minds in this tow think I'm still stuck on my ex's *laughs* goes to show how much they know me lols

    Anyway, if he's still friendly and gives you the feeling of closeness that *I assume* you two had then go for it and ask him ^_^ Just say something like..."I was just wondering if you ever miss me and think about "us"" or something like that. I mean what do you really have to lose except letting the chance slip through your fingers?
    ~*Rhea*~

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    I am doing that now. Lol. It has been almost two months since our one year relationship ended. I still feel as if my other half is missing. I am young but I do believe I loved him. He still calls me all the time. Almost every day and he is coming to my volleyball games. I still have so many questions I want to ask him so therefor you are not alone. I believe that many people feel this way. Its not only you =)

  • Jessica
    17 years ago

    I want him back ;
    i miss his smile ! :(
    he dusnt even smile wen he talks to me nemore.
    he brushes me off.
    Asif im gona come out and ask him..
    all i do is dream bout him !
    IT HURTSS !

  • The Angel of Secrets
    17 years ago

    I never think like that. When I see my ex, I see my ex. When he disappeares from my sight, he disapperes from my mind.