Girlfreind problems ...uggggggg

Ok my girlfreind ..... i cant get her to look me in the eyes, and it seems like i cant have a "deep" conversation, do you know what the delio is? is she not interested?

Maybe she's distracted, ask her what's up. we don't know her nor what she might or might not be going through so we can't really suggest what's going on in her head.

Did you just start dating? Maybe she's really nervous or something. I'd be patient with her and see how things go from there.

Yea..only like a week

I'm sure it's not a matter of her not being interested. You two are new to this relationship, she may just shy and unsure about how to talk to you. It's a possibility. Best thing you could do is talk to her like Lucy suggested. It's the only way you'll find out how she's truly feeling.

I couldn't look this guy I liked in the eyes for sooo long. Reason being is I thought if I looked him in the eyes he could read right through me and know what I was thinking. You know when people say you can read someone if you look in their eyes?..well I was afraid of him being able to do that. I didn't want him to know how I felt or anything. After a while I got used to it though. Anyways, I think it's most likely her being afraid..she needs some time. I think she'll come around soon though.

--Viola

Looking someone directly in the eye can be to intimate. I am guilty of this myself, you can read a lot in a persons eyes and it can be uncomfortable if your not at that level yet. It is not necessarily a slight against you, it speaks more of her own insecurity.

I always did that to my now ex...no he didnt break up with me for that...but when you look someone in the eyes...it feels weird...like your looking at them but not really, its confusing..i feel dumb when i have to look someone in the eyes when im talking to them..my eyes wander. dont take it personally...sometimes it just doesnt feel right to look someone in the eye

Maybe she is depressed n doesnt want to look becasue she might start crying try talking to her about it

Define a deep conversation.

Maybe she doesn't know enough about Proust to debate with you.

That kind of deep?

If not then I'd say you have to build some trust, open her shell up a little.

Before you even worry about deep conversations why don't you have some fun, eh?

Maybe, maybe not just maybe her monthly friend found her, and it just so happens when you two started dating. LOL I'm kidding give her time if it has been a week she is just trying to get used to the idea. she will come around. be patient!!!

"a girls eye are the key to her soul" it took me a long time to look my bf in the eyes, i didnt want him to see how weak i really was. shell come around but it might take time.

Oh gosh,
i am so shy when it comes to the people i like.
looking them in the eye is like letting
them see into my world, soul, heart, thoughts...
pretty much everything.

people can say so much with their eyes.

i can never turn and look at my
boyfriend when i know that he is looking at me
because i automatically freeze up HAHA

idk why..it is frusterating but each day it
is getting better and now i can actually
uhhhm glance at him once in a while.
lmao.