Guy problems~any advice?

  • i will love you in the dark
    17 years ago

    Okay,
    so i started dating this really nice guy...but he lives in another town. Which is a downfall, i met him when i went to my cousins house for the weekend at a football game....we've been dating for about a month now. And then there is this other guy, we have been friends for at least 3 years. And we kinda started to have feelings for each other. and now i don't know what to do. Should i dump my current boyfriend?? Or should i just leave things how they are?? i'm so confused. Help please.

  • AmberSherrellxxIve Been Sitting Here Trying To Find Myselfxx
    17 years ago

    Hmmmm??Well, from my point of veiw, I think that it's wrong to be dating somebody when you have feelings for someone else.That may just be me but,I think it's wrong.So if you and your current boyfriend aren't really all that serious and you have feelings for the guy you've been friends with a long time, you should try it with him.

    BUT!....If you do try dating your friend and you wind up breaking up, you need to make sure that there aren't going to be any hard feelings.Don't throw away a friendship.

    Best of Luck,

    <3Amber

  • He is the Reason
    17 years ago

    Lols I understand how hard being in this situation is =P I was there yesterday *I made my choice so now I have to deal with my friends brokenheart =P* K, the only way i can think to give you advice is to tell you how I decided and hopefully it'll help a little lols

    I have this guy friend that lives a couple thousand miles away form me that I really love but I can't really see him because of how far it is =P He loves me, I love him but the distance causes a lot of problems *understandably lols* and then theres this guy that I've been friends with for about a year, he's really sweet, nice, kind and a gentleman all the time lols He defends me from everyone and really likes me but...I don't feel that way about him because I'm in love with guy #1 =P So I had to choose between the guy that made my heart melt, loved me to pieces *and that I loved back*, supports my every idea but that I can't spend time with because of the distance or the guy that's sweet and nice and a great guy but that doesn't make my heart race and that there's not really any passion with =P It was heard because I really want to have someone there that can actually hold me and be there with me but I had to choose the long distance guy lols Which of these two guys that you have to choose from makes your heart race, you can't stop thinking about, you talk about all the time and you have more in common with? With one make you laugh the most? Ask yourself those questions and go with whichever one the answer is ^_^

    lols I'm sorry that this turned out so long lols I hope that I helped a little but this is the best advice I have to give on this =P Hope it works out for you,
    ~*Rhea*~