I thought he liked me

  • Jo Anna EL
    17 years ago

    Theres this guy that asked me out like 7 times already and i really like him. But then we actualey talked on th 30 of oct. now this random grl he known for sometime a slu_ {im being modest}
    asks him out and he said yes! I cried myself to sleep i died that day.Today!i if read anyone of my poems you'll know how much he ment to me.It felt like real love.I know im young but no matter how much i try my heart wont move on!there isnt any other guy i like my heart skips around him all day and night! I still love him what do i do??

  • Jenni Marie
    17 years ago

    Shouldn't this be in the love forum...Anyway. this girl asked him out and he said yes. There's nothing you can do. he may have said yes because he tired of asking you so many times or he may have said yes because he actually likes her. either way, it's to late. unless they break up, you missed your chance. and anyway, why would you still like him when he changed his mind so easily? if he can ask you out so many times and then get with someone else more or less straight away, he isn't worth the time or effort. is that showing you respect? no. you can do better.

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    I feel your pain :(. But just remember what hes missing out on.

  • broken
    17 years ago

    Ok so i've had that problem with guys and i've posted trying to get help. FINALLY i came to my sences and i knew i was too young for that crap anyway. YOUR 11. JUST LIVE!!! Forget guys for awhile. i've cried over so many guys. and let me tell you. HES NOT WORTH YOUR TEARS! please take my advise cuz one guy isn't worth being unhappy for.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    11? Oh sweetie, what are you getting yourself into.
    Love is just so complicated and you'll get hurt so many times..you don't need to start the drama now. Just let yourself live..for your own sake.

  • MorbidCupcake
    17 years ago

    You move on......you try and forget him.
    Lots of guys will come and go in your life, sometimes guys do stuff like this just to get more popular or to be jerks or someother stupid reason. It does hurt, but everyone goes through it. Im sorry, but youre just gonna have to deal.

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    You're 11, you don't know 'relationship' love. You guys haven't even hit full puberty yet. You don't love him, you loved the idea of him. Get over, cause you will be over it soon enough. In like 1 day, you'll see another guy you'll 'love' and then you'll be writing about him instead...

    ...pre-teens now a days....will they ever say "I really liked him" instead of 'loved him'...

  • Pesamenteiro
    17 years ago

    You eleven!!!
    Gosh Im thirteen and I was asked out once last year and thats the closest Ive ever been to I guy. I dodn't even know the dudes name and I said no. Some girls try to mature to fast, I know this one girl who's been dating since she was in grade two! You can't really call that dating but you get my point.

    Anyway I think you say you loved him but you probably didn't, and if he goes out with that "slu_" (as you so stated) then he obvioulsy doesn't care, if you think what you went through was hard your in for a lot of heartbreak

    These are my thoughts, I'm sorry, I know that you probably really liked this guy but you dont' quite understand love yet, at least wait till you hit your teens, be free whil you still can. =)

  • TrueLovesVictim
    17 years ago

    Your eleven yeras old and its the end of the world. lets have everyone panic because you lost some guy that you had 7 chances to go out with. get over it you had your chance 7 times. they'll be other guys in the world. your only a kid.

  • Marc Ortiz
    17 years ago

    I'm not being harsh or anything.. but it's not love. It's an "Infatuation" (you think you're in love) something like that..

    'Love' cannot be a one way relationship...

    You'll get over it don't worry. Remember it's not the end of the world... You'll find real love in the right time. There's NO need to RUSH! :) Have fun while you can.

    Everything will work perfectly in the right time..

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    You're 11 years old. love is not something that comes that easily, if he really liked you than obviously he wouldn't go out with some other girl the first time he got a chance. i agree with marc. ^^

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Your 11. And this guy is how old?

    Never mind but don't get yourself so caught up in love, it's not worth your time trying to find. If the guy went with the girl maybe he would like to be with her. Just be patient and just let the love come to you.