~CONFUSED~

hey guys. i liked this guy... named luke... i asked him out... he said no... i continuied liking him... and nowi think i like someone else... harlie... two things are stopping me from each of them
LUKE:
1. he already said no
2. I htink i like harlie and dont want to play him

HARLIE
1. i think i like luke and don't want to play him
2. one of my best friends likes him aswell

~should i stay aways from both of them or should i go for one of them help i am so confused.~

stay away is alll i have to say

yeah...its best until you know which one you want then you can sort it out properly!

mike are you saying like someone else???

i really don't like people like you... you think just because i am young i am not the same... you think because i am young i can't have a boyfried... well i say go to hell... i can go out with someone if i want to

Settle petal... I think Comet is just saying that at 13 you can be free without having to worry about boys. And enjoy life more.

But here is my advice:
Do nothing until you are sure which one you like. Don't hurt either of them, and if Luke said no... he may mean 'no'.

A problem I've noticed with following your heart is that you end up doing something you could regret or worse, it could end up hurting u more. Follow your heart and mind. Don't do anything that seems like a long shot. Take small steps. But if i were you, i would spend more time with the friends i have now and just have fun while ur still young. Furthermore, if you get a boy friend now and u develop really *profound* feelings for him, then it would be harder to let him go 'cause after 18, u'll have to go to uni and eventually pursue a career that may not be the same as ur bf. I would go for the boy thing a bit later in life. But anyway, it is up to you. Take care and good luck with ur future!!! :)

thanks you guys talkin really helps but its really hard to decide because you all have different opinions oh well another noght of not sleepign aye?

y r all u guyz saying shes 2 young, i started going out wit guyz wen i was 9, even though it wasnt hard core serious,
Im also 13 and i have had many serious relationships,

Why make yourself suffer heart ache at such a young, vulnerable age, when you can just enjoy things that adulthood can't bring?
And anyways, at 13, hormones are starting to kick in, feelings and situations are decieving.

Different people have different opinions. We are just voicing our own, so broken smile can have a wider variety of options.

thanks ill think about it

Hey talk to your friend see what she thinks! Who is cuter! If Luke doesn't like u then just forget bout him! he is a jerk

Stay away from both.
Find another guy..

i had my first boi frend earlyer this year tiill september , he was a total prat n just wanted me by myself all the time he didnt accept i had a life to , so i dumped him and stayed m8s but still he pessured me to go out but now ive got rid of him totlay . n its a bomb havin my life back , hangin wif m8s goin places wif groups of bois n not having him foning up or turning up , n having go at me . i have a m8 who goes out wif any male der is n every1 nows her as a dog . only go out wif guys u really like n just be m8s wif the rest trust me m8s r better they last longer i have a load of boim8s . well i just blaberd on but i hope u sorta kinda get the messsage i was putting thro , luv lidxxXxx