Hes a senior

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Im a freshman and i like a senior..
    is it okay for me to date him?

  • limp
    17 years ago

    Are we here to make your life decisions for you? we know nothing about him, we don't know how you feel about him, does the age difference even matter? etc.

    choose yourself.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Not against the law to date...unless of course he's friggen older than her as in his twenties or thirties. But he'll be thinking about college and making plans while you're be making friends and worrying about none of that. Then in a few months we'll be seeing posts like, "He's going to college out of state. What do I do now?"

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    It's rape if it's sexual. If it's just dating, then a whole lotta people would be getting locked up for holding hands...which they can if holding hands is unwanted but for this example it's wanted holding hands.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Well ok,. did anyone fail any grades or anything?
    youre giving us NO info.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    You'd be surprised there's actually a percentage of guys with more than a one tracked mind. Who knows if he's one of them or one of the guys who think of one thing most of the time. And she's pursuing him not the other way around. We need some more info if you can.

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    YES!

    IT's okay. As long as he knows that you are still very young and that he will not force or pressure you into anything. I dated my boyfriend when I was a freshman and he was a senior and 5 years later we're living together and very happy. Go out with him, but I repeat, DO NOT and I mean DO NOT force yourself into anything. When I was your age I pushed myself to limits and looking back I regret it. Yeah, we're still together today, but I was to young for some of the stuff!

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Yeah, I dated a senior when I was a freshmen.

    As long as their intentions are good, and you have morals, then I don't see any harm.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    I don't know why he would want to date someone younger such as yourself. I would question his motives...

    My advice is just don't date him.

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Hes 18 im 14.
    he lost his virginity to a girl who he dated for 2 years and it was around the 14 month mark and she ended up breakking up with him.
    he calls me every night.
    hes sweeet to me and he just seems like i reallllllly good guy any more info you need lemme know.
    weve talked about him going off to college and were both okay with it we have 7 months till he does..soo

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Obviously we can't say don't date him or please do. We can give you advice but it's not our place to say you must take it. Make sure you ain't no rebound girl though. Did they just break up?

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    Ugh its weird, not going to lie. I mean it's not like a disgusting difference, but you guys are in such different places, never mind the fact that both of you mentally and physically are still growing. But if its genuine...also keep in mind that if he recently broke up with a girl in a 2 year relationship, he might be on the rebound.

  • silent eyes
    17 years ago

    When i was a freshman i dated someone in college... was that a bad decision? kinda.... he ended up only wanting one thing, but i learned from it...but this guy may not be like that. so go for it

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    If thats what you want then sure. My boyfriend was a senior last year and I was a sophmore. We are still making things work out just fine!!! If it's what you want then you should go for it.

  • Jamie Lorraine
    17 years ago

    Well if you want to go for it!!! but make sure he feels the same way and if it is just dating then I would not worry but if it turn sexual then you might want to think about the risk of people finding out mostly your parnets

  • cowgirlstar26
    17 years ago

    Been there done that,,,,, if you do it, unless he's mr wonderful, your gonna get hurt, either when he goes to college or the life experience catches up to him. it's a really big difference.

  • ihrtschlepper
    17 years ago

    I kno how u feel, i actually did date a senior as a freshman, but yea, my bro got mad.

    normally i wldnt date a senior but i trusted this guy... just make sure that you kno him and he wont ask 4 more than u want!