Im very Confused.......

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    I broke up with a guy last year and we continued being bestfriends now last night he told me he was bi and well I asked if that helped in us breaking up and he told me in a way I scared him because of how outspoken I am and that he wasnt ready because I was myself I wasnt what everyone else wanted and that scared him

    I was to scared to ask wether he could ever get passed that what can I do just continue being his bestfriend?

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    17 years ago

    I don't think so. That would be really bad since he told you he was bi. I mean, maybe you like that, but its not good.

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    Him turning bi may of helped him break up with you, and thats because i kind of went through a stage where i was like am i straight or not :S it kind of messes with you and i think he thought the best way to sort things out was kind of be alone in a way.
    If he didnt love you for being yourself and being different, then he didnt love you that much in the first place, if you act how people want you to act then your not being yourself and well who ever turns to like you while in a way pretending then they wont know the real you, people need to be able to adjust to your way of being and live with it.

    I think you should also stay best mates with him and try and forget about your past more then mates relationship and basicly enjoy life and do what mates do.

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    Thanks for ur advice I have decided on my own terms it is best to have him as a friend then not have him at all