Gave myself up to him now its over. <3

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    See. I had this amzaing boyfriend. We were dating for a little over a month and one night, I gave it up to him. I dont know why, I just felt different about him, and 1-2 weeks later he broke up with me. It hurt so bad, and I was depressed about it. Now hes with this other girl and yeah it hurts but I tell everyone I dont care. I dont know what to do though. I was with someone for over a year and didnt give it up to him, and I did with him after a month. I feel so stupid. I dont know what else to think.

  • babyPB
    17 years ago

    Well, i didnt give anything to anybody yet.
    but i understand your situation,
    well, im sure this wont be the only regret in your life
    regarding with this issue.
    might as well, live with it. accept it.
    never feel stupid.
    everything happens for a reason.
    its his loss, not yours.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Never gave anything up to anybody but could understand that it must be very emotionall painful for you. THink of it this way, you learned what you don't want, who you don't want, and what qualities in somebody you do not want. You make mistakes. You learn from them and grow because if not then you're stuck. Just stuck there,

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    Oh well. You made a mistake. Now you know not to do that next time.

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    Yeah well obviously there wont be a next time, you can only loose your virginity once. Or did you not know that? God, people are so insensitve!

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    And some people are way too sensitive.

    Look, she's right. You made a mistake, and you can't change it. So deal with it, and next time you're in a relationship you'll have learned your lesson and won't put out so soon.

    Chalk it up to a learning experience, that's really all you can do about it at this point.

  • Krazikoko
    17 years ago

    ^That and thank God for not having any health problems and unwanted shit.^ That guy was crap and someday youll find someone who deserves to be with a girl like you. Dont beat yourself up for a loser like him. He doesnt deserve that from you. Guys like that make me wanna puke.

    Live and learn.

  • xbroken070x
    17 years ago

    The way i see it its his loss. you deserve better than that. don't beat yourself up over it, it happend for a reason. you could do better.

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    'never regret something that once meant everything to you'.

  • Aleesha
    17 years ago

    Thanks a lot, I agree too. Guys like that make me wanna puke too. But you are right! Thanks.