So confused...Need some good advice..x

  • IMissYou
    17 years ago

    Well I've been with my bf now for almost 9 months on the 21st! He is the most loveliest person I could ever hope to met but there's one problem we never seem to be happy. It may not seem like alot but it really upsets me and him because we are in love well we think so lol. The bf i had before him tryed to rape me which messed me up alot but he helped me through it all. I'm just not sure what to do as now the ex has moved onto my street and i get really freaked out whenever i go out as sometimes he will follow us when we are in the car and he is on his moped. I don't want my past to affect my relationship with my bf but seems to be and i dunno what to do!!!
    Any advice would be great..Stace..x

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    Report him. Simple as that.

    Or get a restraining order. Atleast TRY to. Part of you could get him away if you really really tried. or even if you just simple tried.

  • IMissYou
    17 years ago

    Yeah it is his fault that we ain't getting on. Also I tryed to report him but the police said there was nothing they could do as there was no evidence. I also went to them to tell them he was following me but they said i was paranoid and that he probably wasn't following me he was just in the same place as me sometimes!!! I dunno what to do I've tryed everything I've told the police and him to leave me alone but he still does it. I just want to be happy with my boyfriend like we used to be.

  • IMissYou
    17 years ago

    Yeah that's annoying because if he actually did it to someone else I would feel so awful! I know my bf and you are right when you say to ignore him but it's hard but when I do it's just like old times and then we are so happy! I just hate being upset and seeing my bf upset because of me!

  • Jamie Lorraine
    17 years ago

    I totally agree with Bob. great advice

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    Britt.

    did
    you
    just
    moderate
    bobbys
    answer

    ?

    :

    And original poster: Report this boy immediately.