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  • iloveyouandrew
    17 years ago

    Ok Me and This guy named Josh were together every day during the summer and we were so in love. I mean we went swimming together, we rode on his dirtbike and he always cuddled with me and told me how much he loved me and how beautiful i was...We had so many memories together and I just cant seem to let them go. Then people broke us up and he cheated on me. He heard alot of stuff about me from these too girls Tiffani and Chelsey and his ex girlfriend Samantha...They said alot of stuff and he was sick of the drama so he quit talking to me...Im heartbroken. Then i went bowling the other night with my friend Hannah and he was up there with his friends and this girl amber was with him but she has a boyfriend...So i got really mad and I got my friend cody to walk past him and he put his arm around me...When i came back in He was there and he was all sad and depressed and him and his friend went in the bathroom and talked and stuff and he came back out and he had his friend look at me and I had cody put his arm around me...Then Cody had to leave and I looked over at Josh and when i did he put his arm around the Amber Chick and this just kept going on and on...Does this mean he still has feelings for me? I need advice..Thanks and Much Love!!
    *Shannon*

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    "and told me how much he loved me and how beautiful i was..."

    He knew you for how long in the summer and claimed to 'love' you?

    Summer's over, love. You relationship is, too.

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    Rock on with the metaphores, bobby ;]

  • That One Girl
    17 years ago

    I think that he isnt worth it. ive had pleanty of guys tell me that they loved me but they were all just talking there is a lot more fish in the sea and josh is just mad that you got over him so quickly

  • Jamie Lorraine
    17 years ago

    Honey do yourself a favor and forget him!!! quit playing his game and move on. there are summer loves who do work out and there are some that don't and yours is one of the ones that don't. so please don't cause yourself anymore pain and move on. there are two things you can do and that is 1) find someone better or 2) (I take it that you are single) stay single and enjoy it!!! gurl have yourself some fun and quit worrying about whats-his-name=)

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    Obviously you guys have some things to figure out.

    trying to make each other jelous with meaningless
    actions wont solve anything, it will just add to it!

    he is a cheater. what makes you think that he
    wont do it again?
    yeah he says that he loves you and that you
    are so beautiful but how much of that can
    you trust if he just went and did that to you?

    sorry, i GREATLY dislike cheaters.

    and even if anyone tries to say it isnt his fault,
    it is.
    he knows what was going on the whole time he was doing it.

    im thinking that it would just be best to get over him!

    find someone that you deserve and be someone that THEY deserve.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Psh, my last 'summer love' apparently had 4 other summer loves and one wound up bearing his child while he was in jail. but personally i just laughed it off. and threw it in his face by lying and telling him i was leaving him for his best friend nicole [yes a girl]
    ... oh me and her had a giggle over that...

    then again, i never considered myself to 'love' him.. rather, i thought he was hot and a decent kisser. the end.
    i tend to not get attached anymore.
    well i mean i did.
    of course, i am now =] =]

  • iloveyouandrew
    17 years ago

    Well i mean it wasnt really a summer love it kinda was but after summer was over we dated for over 2 monthes too and i just feel there is something between us...i cant get over him =[

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    "door mats are on sale at home depot, don't sell yourself so cheap"

    How perfect. Summers a nice time to hit and quit it, I've heard.

    Might want to just let it go there, dear. He probaly isnt coming back around with loyalty anytime soon.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    *sings* "Summer loving, happened so faaaast"

    Sorry dear, but i agree with everyone else is saying.
    All this playing games has always been a mystery to me, if you have something to say, just say it.
    If he's being as childish to try make you jealous (and vice versa), i don't either of you being mature enough to have a relationship.
    Sorry sweets, just telling it like it is
    *Gem*