Weird Problem

  • T uh Belle lll
    17 years ago

    I like this guy a lot, because of his personality (of course!), but he sweats excessively. Kinda gross. Should I date him, even though I'd be kind of disgusted?

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  • T uh Belle lll
    17 years ago

    Well i don't find him disgusting, just sweaty and smelly, but hey alot of boys are! right?

    but i'm just worried about the touchy feely times, but yeah i guess thats what the towels for.

    oh and he has the cutest little stutter

    but my friends obviously don't agree that i should date him, but screw them.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Blahh i mean.. follow your heart yeah yeah..
    but ewwww for me, thanks.
    i dated a guy who sweated ALOT.
    he was pretty much a pig in general.
    and an ass.
    so..
    idk. if hes nice, then do it? buy him deodorant!! =]

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    That's so stupid, you're judging him cause of his sweating. If you sweated a lot, wouldn't you be sad if a guy skipped on you cause of that.

    I say, deal with it. After you are both confortable around each other, to the point you can say anything, tell him he has a problem, lol.

  • Fsams
    17 years ago

    Listen to what your heart says and dont go for a date until you know him well.....

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    A very close friend of mine sweats excessively too, he had it bad a few years ago. His then girlfreind had put up with it for some time. She told him to go and see someone about it .. he did. There are tablets you can take to reduce the perpiration. His doctor presribed them, and it works a treat.

    So I would say - it he doesn't repulse you with the sweating and you can get past it. Give it some time and then suggest seeing his doctor about it.

    ~Pete.

  • Melpomene
    17 years ago

    I was just going to say what the above poster said. If you like this guy, date him. Over time when you get comfortable with each other you can talk to him about his sweating problems. Maybe he doesn't know that their are things he can get to reduce the sweating ect or maybe he's just too embarrased. I'm sure this can be solved though so don't let it stop you from dating this person ~Mel

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    If you like someone for who they are, looks and personal problems shouldn't matter.
    His problem can be sorted, but can your shallowness be?

    Just bite the bullet and go out with him! You only have one life! Don't let shallow problems get in the way!

  • That One Girl
    17 years ago

    Everyone has their flaws. he will probably grow out of it when you are dating and all of your friends will regret that they said anything ecpeccily if they got into a fight over it with you.;)

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Wow... just wow...

  • meandhim080307
    17 years ago

    I think you should give the guy a chance. if you really like the guy you should accept his flaws. but if you know that you just absolutely can not deal with it and it could ruin your friendship, then dont do it.

  • T uh Belle lll
    17 years ago

    I saw him today, but after talking to a bunch of strangers about his problem, I felt kind of awkward.

    I don't think anything will happen between us unless he instigates a relationship.

    However, this so does not mean I'm shallow. I mean this has nothing to do with his appearance, it has to do with hygiene.

    I guess only time will tell.

    Thanks for everyones help, although there were many different opinions, I think there was a common ground among the majority, which really helped.

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  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    Original poster has already recieved their answer and requested this thread closed. Therefor I am now locking it.

    ~~Sher