I need yalls help..

Ok i have alot if isues... but the one i cant help but to just want to kill my boyfriend...
lastnite my sister was talkin to my ex and then he signed on well before he signed on the ims were going fast then they slowed down....
so my sister decided to test her.. she said ya brandi ahs been acting strange lately... so then not even 2 min.. later my boi imed her sayin how is brandi actin strange.. i dont care who he talks to but her... i dont want him talkin to her and he knos it.. but yet he talks to her... it drives me crazy.....
i dont know what to do anymore

Well i dont really want to kill him.. .but i am mad at him.. when ever he talks to her he gets in a bad mood and we fight with each other....

You can't control who he talks to.
It's you he's with, not her.
Has she done something to you that makes you not want him to talk to her or something?

Personally, i don't care if Marcus talks to his ex, it's him who choses not to because she put us both through hell at the beginning.
If you went through something similiar, i can understand your feelings, but if she is just an ex with no hard feelings, you can't TELL him not to talk to her.

But have a serious chat with him and tell him your worries without shouting at him.
Good luck
*Gem*

She put us threw hell and took him from me just so she could hurt him lik ehe hurt her when they dated... i love him and i always loved him... it wouldnt bother me if he wouldnt hide it...

thank you so much

Trust honey trust

"She put us threw hell and took him from me just so she could hurt him lik ehe hurt her when they dated... i love him and i always loved him..."

Oh? That so? All of your 16 year old existance you've felt this for him? Look.. You're going to find other boys sooner or later. But for now.. So he talks to his ex? What can you do about it?
One of my exes is my best friend. You just cant control it. You have him. YOU. Not her.
And even if he gave her the capability to "take" him from you, he isn't worth your time. He obviously can't stay dedicated.

Trust him. If he betrays it.. I'd say split.

I do trust him and i kno i have him not her i just cant stand that they talk....

i trust him so much... i have never trusted anyone as much as i trust him.....

Obviously you DONT if you posted this thread about mistrust.

I know how you feel i cant stand it when my bf talks to his exs. it drives me crazy cuz their alway trying to break us up. i like he cheated on me with two of them. so i dont blame you for being mad.

Thank you i dint mean it like that...

i am jealous b\c i dont want to lose him and when he was supose to be talkin to me is when he was talkin to him...

AND I DO trust him its her i dont trust....

Finnaly someone understands me... he left me once for her and i dint want it to happen again

Because i love him... i have been with him for over a year now... everyone who has responded has been understanding but...

Britt... i love him so veary much...

I have been hurt before and i kno i am in a situation to be hurt but isnt any one... you can be married for 50 years and you are liable to get hurt...

Britt i think of that everyday i am with him... he tells me he loves me but yet he does thinks that hurts me...
he said he wouldnt do anything to hurt me again when we got back togetherbut yet he does...
Today i am going totry to talk to him about it...
do you think it will help us..?

So it wont work... i am prayin that it will...
i beg that it will....Britt can i message you somethig personal?

Ok

"If you trusted him, you wouldn't care who he speaks to...And it wouldn't bother you who he talked to."

I do agree with what Brit said, if you have no trust, you have no relationship.
But you need to see something. Yes ok, he left you once for her, but he's back with you now so unless you have a talk with HIM and stop stressing about it behind his back, you're going to get nowhere.
I wish you luck
*Gem*

I talked to him yesturday and we worked it out... i told him that if he wanted to talk to him he could but i wanted to kno about it and not hide it from me.. so lastnite we were on aim and she imed him.. so he sent me the converstaion and told her he couldnt talk he was talkin to me so finaaly she loged out...

Its good that you two worked it out, just be careful. i get what youre saying with the whole he hurt me once but i still love him, been there, am there. make sure that he respects you and your wishes, but dont try to lock him down.