Is it love????

Ok i was with this girl off and on for a year and 3 months. we have been through a lot. we broke up and well yeah lets just say at first it look like we were goin to get back together again but then all of a sudden things change. we still talk and hang out and do everything but we fight like cats and dogs. everytime we fight we say that we dont want to talk to eachother anymore and that we leavin for good. but then like a few hours to a day later we talkin again. i love her with my heart and i want to be with adn she says the same but we dont make any moves... what wrong is it love or just a fantancy.

"what wrong is it love or just a fantancy."

that made absolutely no sense but i guess i can depicher it. we honestly have no idea. maybe you two fight a lot because there's still undealt feelings in the arena. do you think she wants to be friends or more than that? talk to her, ask how she still feels about you, and then think about it yourself. do you REALLY think you love her? or is it just a daydream of what you wish you felt?
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i see where ur coming from... i think the best thing to do would be when you fight, just step down and avoid an arguement. do your best to not cause an arguement. if you do this, but you both still keep fighting, then take a step back and try living w/o each other for awhile... see what happens

^My rule of thumb too.