How long does it hurt?

  • Erica
    17 years ago

    So how long does it take you to get over a guy?
    i know thats a really general question but say you went out with a guy for like 2 moths and almost fell for him but broke up with him because you realized that hes just not one for relationships and you wanted to save yourself from all the desaster you could be walking RIGHT into, right?..but you see him 4 times a day. you still really care about him. hes a jerk to you now though since your just such a "skank" among various other things hes called you for no apparent reason other than "you just are" ... so after all that .. how long does it hurt?

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    "how long does it hurt?"

    ^Oh forever (ok not THAT long but a long while). Maybe it's just me..but I can get over a guy, I just can't get it to stop hurting. Especially if the guy is in your daily life..that makes it worse.

    You'll get over him, surely..but the hurt..well I think it'll always be there in some way. You just tend to drown it out with the happiness that will come, that's all.

    --Viola

  • Bret Higgins
    17 years ago

    How long does it hurt? How long is a piece of string.

    It'll hurt for as long as you need it to.

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    I was with a guy for a year and almost two months later after we broke up I am still feeling the pain. It is going to hurt. It is a hard transition going from being together to almost nothing. Stick in there, it all happens for a reason =]

  • Nigel Oliver
    17 years ago

    For someone like that, not long at all

    But if it was someone you loved, or your true love, it could hurt forever.

  • Erica
    17 years ago

    Thankyou so much. i believe it happened for a reason too...

  • Jamie Lorraine
    17 years ago

    As long as you need it to. as soon as you realize that you deserve better and move on and when it doesn't hurt anymore.

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    For as long as you cling to the idea it could be better again.

    When you let go, you heal.

  • SiNfUl ToUcH
    17 years ago

    U wana know something weird... u stay carin about ppl who treat u like crap after u break.... and well u know u have to look at it as there is reason y u broke up and he just actin like that bcuz he hurt and wants u to as well...

  • ihrtschlepper
    17 years ago

    For me, i think the majority of the guys i have dated/liked will always be in my heart. there will always be a peice of me that wishes for it back...

    so the answer pretty much is forever, or until u find someone really special

  • Dian PH
    17 years ago

    As long you have a care of that person even though you been hurt once cos of involving your self in lovin' him...

    you might be felt so upset on letting him go but it's the best way cos as what you say his not really totally on a relationship but in your part it has already a meaning right...

    i understand cos i face the same problem in heart of love also...
    just don't be serious on it to much...

    a lot of man around the globe...

    you can still the love on a person you deserve the most...

    chill up girl... ^^

  • Sarah Louise
    17 years ago

    Open wounds never heal...

    As soon as you let go and move on, you'll feel better and it won't hurt anymore.

  • Dian PH
    17 years ago

    Nice one!!!

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    It hurts fohhhheveahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

    and then it doesn't.
    viola.