Impossible....or not?

  • RobinAnn13
    17 years ago

    This probably sounds really naive and stupid, but do you think it's possible to be falling in love with someone that you don't really talk to that much? I mean say you know a lot about him, his interests, future plans, personality. You know he's smart and he's really nice. You have similar interests. The thought of him puts butterflies in your stomache and when you think of anything to do with a relationship you think of him.

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    Lol i did once in yr 10 i liked this guy for a yr n i didnt know what he looked like

  • olive oyl
    17 years ago

    Anythings possible just not probable

  • SpEcIaLmE
    17 years ago

    Anything can be possible if you believe in it :)

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    It's possible to really like them, but I wouldn't say you're falling in 'love', essentially. I think in order for that you would have to know him inside and out by spending time with him, not just hearing about him from other people.

    That's just me though.

  • That One Girl
    17 years ago

    Well this is kinda in between. you might have heard rumors and he is a rude insesitvie jerk underneath but you are probably feeling lust if you dont know him all that well. be friends with him and see how it all plays out

  • meandhim080307
    17 years ago

    I agree, just dont put everything on this guy just yet until you really get to know him. if you still feel the same way, maybe it is love.

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    I can honestly put my hand on my heart and say ... No!

    You have said that you rarely even communicate with this guy, how can you possibly be in Love with someone you don't talk to? There is a word used occasionally. Hmm it slips my mind at the moment...

    Infatuation.

    Now, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying you are not crazy about him. You could be mad about him for all I know ... but there is no way on earth you can love someone you hardly ever talk to.

    As a foot note, infatuation isn't a bad thing. I was infatuated with a girl - basically the same symptoms (yes symptoms describe an illness - Love is) as you stated at the top. We got together, and we did fall in love with each other eventually.
    I would say - get with this guy, see how you feel when you can hold a conversation together. It could/might/may turn into love eventually.

    ~Pete.