Im in love with my best friend but he dsont love me

Okay IM GOIN CRAZY I WANT TO KIL MY SELF

i am in love with my best friend who is a guy. no joke at all. all i can think about is him. i cant do anything with out thinkin of him!!

it makes me think wtf is wrong with mee? am i ugly stupid not cool. i dont no what to do its talkin mee sooo crazy.

i cant take this anymore!!!

do i love him like this? or are we better off friends??

help...please

(Do not post things about self harm. Read the forum rules please and thank you .)

If you can't have him as a lover, being a friend is the next best thing. Oh actually in many cases being friends is even BETTER than being together in an intimate sense.

Friends will always last, but boyfriends wont. tell him how you feel and see how it plays out

First off. Stop thinking your ugly and not cool. If you weren't cool and he thought you were ugly he wouldn't be your best friend now would he? And as you'll learn, as my girlfriend of over a year has now, no one or anything is worth cutting yourself. It solves nothing and no one is worth it. Tell him. See what happens. If you guys are best friends it won't effect him. You can't force him to like you. As much as you want to. You can just tell him and see how that plays out.

Chin up. You'll find someone. Don't worry about that.

Why dont u tell him that n see what he does

Honey!!!!! DON'T SAY THAT YOU WANT TO KILL YOURSELF!!!! that is not the way to go, that is the last thing you should do we are here for you

Tell him and see how it goes and then if he doesn't feel the same then, stay friends with him. my sister dated my best friend who is a guy and they found out that even though they loved each other they were better off as friends so they broke it off and they still love each other and until this day they still hang out, talk to each other and everything.

Tell him how you FEEL before you start getting upset. and if it doesn't work out and he doesn't like you that way, it isn't the end of the world. eventually you'll be crazy about someone who is crazy about you too, so stop worrying and wasting your youth with a knife.

(you did nothing wrong, however i just took the self harm out so that it's not an issue. Thank you)

Being friends in many - most - ways is better. i was in love with my best friend but it changed how i acted around him alot. he started acting differently aswell untill i stopped being silly and started loving him as a friend. things are much better now.

Love shouldn't make you want to kill yourself. It should be a constructive thing, not a negative one. If this guy found out that you were hurting yourself because you couldn't be with him, would you really want him feeling guilted into going out with you?

That said, please don't think that friendship love is in ANY way less important than romantic love. I have a fellow who has been my best guy friend for almost a decade, and I can certainly say that I love him more than any guy I've been romantic with. In a lot of ways, it's better.

So talk to him, but even if he doesn't return your exact feelings, don't take that as a punishment - treat it as the gift it is.

The best relationships start out as friends. Even if he doesnt love you, it doesnt mean he doesnt care for you. He's your friend, just let it stay like that. Let him ask you when the time comes.

Look. you need to read the book called every man's battle. Cuz it will help you alot. You cant be inlove with a another guy. Its not right.

Contrary to popular belief, love is NOT pain. there may be things involved in love that cause you pain [I am NOT talking cheating, etc, because thats no love] but love isnt pain. so you shouldnt want to kill yourself over it

but you cant make him love you.. so suck it up and be grateful you have a best friend at all.

I agree wif sibyllene.
dont make im feel sorry for u make him feel like ur such an awesome friend that someday he might want 2 b a bit more
:D
gd luck

xx

1) you are not ugly or stupid. you are an amazing individual.

2) i know how this feels. except my best friend doesn't know. and i won't tell him. ever. because i wont hurt him that way. but it feels like your heart is going to explode, doesn't it? like the world is ending and that you can't stop it? cuz that's how it feels for me.

3) i don't know how to help you...im sorry....

4)don't kill yourself even if u r crazy ^_^

5) self harm sux.

6) i made a list! :P

7) god bless

You know what i ahve the same situation, and im gonna give you my advice, and then im also going to use it, dont waste your time on wondering what could be because your just gonna miss out on it, take a chance, trust me its worth it, if he doesn't like you back then thats the down side to life, but why not take a chance and see? because if he does love you back then thats the greatest thing there is, to fall in love with your bestfriend is to like find your soul mate, its the perfect couple

All you can do i calm down
Tell him
See what happens
and go with your heart