It's over but I'm still in love

Hey me and my bf Garry have just spilt up he told me this morning, I dunno what to do I totally know it's my fault because I used to moan alot about this guy! Also I didn't like him going like him getting drunk when i wasn't him as he did stuff with my 3 best mates(not at the same time obviously)and when i've been drunk something bad has always happened to me!!! I dunno what to do he also wrote me a letter saying that he didn't like how i moaned but that he hopes we can still be mates and that he had the greatest time with me and i made him feel special and that he will never forget me!!! I havn't stopped crying all day and just wanted some advice as before we got together we liked each other for 5years and have been together for almost 9 months!!! I love him with all my heart and I dunno what i'm gonna do as I don't wanna hurt him but he's hurting me alot..x

He did stuff with three of your friends? Yet you still stayed with him? More fool you then.

Yes, it hurts. Break ups always hurt. You just have to keep busy and keep your mind of him, in any way you can. The pain will eventually lessen, even though it takes time.

But from the sounds of it, you're better of without him anyway. This guy doesn't deserve even thinking about, never mind your tears.

Oh Britt. You beat me.

No he didn't cheat on me he did that stuff about a 2 weeks before i went out with him he's never cheated on me!!! I just don't no what to do as I really miss him and even tho he said we could be mates he won't give me a lift to school or go out with me anywhere as he said it would be to upsetting so im confused.

Even if he's a complete ass and everything he does is screaming at you not to be with him, you still have to be because you love him that much. I'm in a similar situation. Trust me...common sense doesn't work.

Sometimes he really annoys me but then i annoy him too! I just miss him alot he helped me through some of the worst times of my life and now we over I just wanna be with him. I love him so much but do you think I should try to get back with him or just leave him?!