Mixed messages

  • bianca
    17 years ago

    I would loved any advice, expecally from guys!

    ** I like this guy(corey) and i knew he liked me. We talked alot on myspace and on yahoo messenger. We have known eachother for 3 years, and liked eachother almost as long. We got to talking about it, and talking about being in a relationship togehter. He told me he was scared of getting into another relationship becuase he always ends up getting hurt. I told him that i was there either way. As just friends for now, or as more. Well he asked me out and i said yes. We were together for almost 2 weeks, and suddenly he is telling me he wants to break up and just be friends for a while, becuase he thinks we are really different, and he has been stressing out about "us". I said i was fine with it, and i wasn't amd at him. Well i see him the next night comming out of the moveis with his brother and some friends as me and my best friend are going in, we get to talking and he asks me if im ok and if im mad at him, i say no, and he gives me a hug.

    -well he acts like we are still dating, he keppt hugging me and holding me close, and all that, then when they got ready to leave he gives my a hug bye, and kisses me on the neck and tells me to call him the next day. I do and when i go to get off the phone, he says "call me back later, i love you".....and now i am confused becuase i still want to be with him, and hes the one said said he wanted a break, and to be jsut friends for a while....but now hes doing this...im kinda confused, and am not sure what to do. any advice will be greatly appreciated.
    *sorry so long*
    Bianca

  • meandhim080307
    17 years ago

    I think you should talk to him about it and ask which signals hes meaning to give out. find out if he wants to be in a real relationship with you or if he just wants to be friends. if he does want to be just friends, you need to find out if he wants more out of the friendship, and see if you feel the same way about the friendship or if hes just messin with your emotions. hope this helps.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Talk to him, and tell him he needs to figure out what he wants rather than confusing both of you.

    Talking to him is always the answer, although I know it isn't always the easiest..

  • That One Girl
    17 years ago

    Ask him what his deal is. you can be confused forever but make sure he knows that you still like him

  • kori
    17 years ago

    I agree with the others. Talking to him would have the best outcome.

  • bianca
    17 years ago

    Yeah i am going to talk to him today hopefully. But i found out right after i posted this that he told his sister (who i am also friends with) that he wanted a break to think about thing because he was stressing cause he thinks we are too different (meaning he ilkes to party drink and all that and i dont). I know he does this and it doesn't bother me, he knows this too. So im not really sure, He knows i still care alot about him because i told him that. He also told me that by breaking up with me he didn't want me to think he didn't still like m cause he still likes me alot.

    so im not really sure at this point. I think i just need to talk to him aboutit, even though its going to be hard. I like still being friends but its just too confusing right now. I am a naturally flirty person so is he. So for us to be "broke up" and still friends, (where we would normally pick on eachother) is going to make things difficult. But thanks.

    *any more advice would be great*
    Bianca

  • bianca
    17 years ago

    **just thought id say that he asked me back out friday night when me and a friend of mine were hanging out with him and his brother. he told me he wanted to try and work things out cause he really wants to be with me. and i said i would give him a nother chance...

  • crystaljean88
    17 years ago

    Well at least he is the one who asked u back.. that means he does care for u and i could tell by ur other mesages that he didnt mean to hurt u . he was confused n i think u were to. so i think this could b a good thing. i hope it works out. good luck