Is it possible?

  • stefanie
    17 years ago

    Is it really possible to love more than one person at a time? i don't. but i think and feel that the person that i love does and that it's happening again right behind my back. i'm so confused. i love him so much but it just sometimes doesn't seem like it's enough. i don't feel like enough. i know how i feel about love so i know that i cannot love any other if i love someone already. i love him and i can't think of loving another. but it is really possible to love more than one person at a time?

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    I don't think it is.
    Not true love anyway. How can anyone say they truly love someone if they have feelings for someone else?

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    You can definitely be attracted to more than one person at any one time. I honestly don't think you can love (bf/gf love, not family love) more than one person at a time.

    When you are in love; that person is everything to you. No other person compares.

    ~Pete.

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    Yep, been there wasnt fun.

    Love is free not contained it can flow in many different dirrections.

  • marilyn marti
    17 years ago

    I think it is possible to love more than one person..but it all depends on who you love MORE..its really hard...but u have to decide what you want..if it doesnt feel like enough, then its NOT enough..stop waiting there hoping things will change or believing that it will BECOME enough..do something about it..i know its complicated...but i was ina relationship where i thought i lovd the guy..but it NEVER felt like enough..i felt something missing..i stayed with him for 7 months until i finally said to myself that i CANNOT waste my time with somebody that i know i will never be able to love..so i moved on..now i realized that it was the best decision i could have ever made..now im dating a guy that i feel a spark for..when i started dating the OTHER guy there was NO spark in the beginning but i kept hoping that those butterflies u get in your stomach when u like someone would one day appear..they didnt. Thats why i know now that if i dont feel IT in the beginning, then its not even worth a try..be strong..the answer IS in your heart..it just takes a little digging to find it! messg me if u need anything..take care

    Marilyn~

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Love yourself.
    everyone else sucks.

  • Pete
    17 years ago

    Great post danielle, not the best outlook on life though.
    ):

  • Vincent Thornsberry
    17 years ago

    Life sucks then you die is a motto that i live by

  • DeathsRose
    17 years ago

    The way I see it, if you say you love more than one person at a time then you don't really love any of them because yuo don't know what you want or you'd only love one person.

  • ABrookeD
    17 years ago

    Sure you can 'say' you love more than one person, but when it comes down to true love, i don't think that's possible. I'm so sick of people abusing the word love.
    There are people who want love so badly that whoever they are with, they say they love. True love is so much deeper than that.
    I completely agree with ^^tpam. If you say you love more than one person at a time, or even think it, you don't love either one. You probably don't even know what love is.

  • stefanie
    17 years ago

    I do know what love is. i told myself that i wouldn't just say it because i was in a relationship. it means something really meaningful and deep to me. and yes, i know the difference between just saying you love someone and actually really being IN love with someone. i am IN love with my boyfriend. i truly am.

    thank you all for the advice. i really appreciate it. it means alot. thank you.

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    I agree.
    You can only truely love one person otherwise its not true.
    xx

  • StandStill
    16 years ago

    You can think you love two people. like, it feels like you love both of em, u no? but there's only one TRUE love and ur mistaking the other one....it's a confusing jungle in our hearts. good luck