How far is too far?

  • lish
    17 years ago

    Okayy im 14, and ive gone all the way with about 15-20 guys so far just in this year alone.

    kindof sluttish i know but how far is too far for this age?
    xxo

  • stefanie
    17 years ago

    Sweetie, you're only fourteen. that's such a young age to be having sex. especially with that many guys. your innocence is the most precious thing you can have and you just gave it away and by obviously seeing how many you have been with, it seems that it doesn't mean that much to you. the most precious thing you can have and now you won't ever be able to get it back. sweetie, you're still young. a kid. be a kid. have fun. you're barely starting high school. don't be in a hurry to follow a crowd or grow up. don't give in to peer pressure. be a kid. yes its ok to have fun and go out but keep it in moderation. think. have respect for yourself. if you don't have respect for yourself, do you think that other people will? think about that. respect yourself sweetie. i'm not trying to get you upset and i hope you don't take this the wrong way but you did post this up here for advice. don't do this to yourself. what you have said you have done is not just far or too far, but its way beyond how far it should have ever gone at this age. you've got years and years ahead of you. live them and have fun. but keep it in moderation. be smart hun. remember, you're fourteen. act like you're fourteen. and think of the consequences. i hope you don't take this the wrong way. i'm just a complete stranger who doesn't even know you, but doesn't mean that i can't care.... be smart hun. don't be in a rush to grow up. you've got so much more better things that are there waiting for you. don't do this to yourself.

    -stefanie

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    I would say you've gone about 15-20 guys past too far. Why are you trying to grow up so fast?

  • Milton
    17 years ago

    "kindof sluttish i know'

    kind of? No. you're not "kind of" that's what you are. and stupid.